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SweetSarijane -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 6:11:26 AM)

Several times yes. I just have to continue ahead with what I'm currently doing to get out of here and say bye bye as I load up and drive off to the new place. Once I'm out and their pouting is done things will be fine, but I have to get myself and my family out from under their control and manipulation.



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 6:15:20 AM)

Do you think that is your biggest problem at the moment?



SweetSarijane -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 6:43:29 AM)

Yes because of the whole picture. There are variables figured into the whole situation that make it my biggest problem. I'm not saying it's all bad all the time nor do I hate them, I just simply have to be on my own with my family in order for things to be the best for all concerned.



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 6:46:36 AM)

I'm glad you are making it happen, sometimes people know they have a problem but cant indentify it.



SweetSarijane -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 6:53:28 AM)

I was one of those in the past, but in time I figured out what the problem at the time was and then began to work to changing things for the better. Now, I'm more analytical when things aren't right and tend to start working to find/identify the problem and then look for ways to fix it. Solutions don't happen overnight for me, but once the problem is identified and possible solutions begin to be visible to me, I start work to fix things. I've been in situations that took years to fix and got very bad in the meantime and I made a promise to myself that I would never be stuck in a bad situation ever again any longer than it takes to find and work on a solution to it.



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 6:56:15 AM)

Do you think that is the meaning of life? solving problems or just accepting them?



SweetSarijane -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 7:05:43 AM)

I believe the meaning of life is different for each person. I don't think there is a universal meaning of life that fits everyone. It's more what does life mean to you in my opinion. For me the meaning in my life is my family who are very special gifts to me, and the responsibility I have to prepare them for life on their own and the deep love I have for each of them. That is part of what fulfills me and makes me happy and brings meaning to my life.

As to problems, I work to solve the ones that are solvable and accept the ones that aren't or aren't yet solvable. I'm stubborn and tend to always try to find a way to fix or solve problems first before accepting the ones I can't or can't yet solve. I never give up, just occasionally step back and take a break from a problem before coming back to tackle it again.

Edited because i works better there than o.



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 7:17:31 AM)

You are slowly defining your life, any more gripes i can be Devils Advocate for?



SweetSarijane -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 7:29:38 AM)

Men who think because you're a woman, you can't possibly know what's wrong with your vehicle? I'm still irked that the mechanic said yesterday what I've been saying for months needs replaced on my van and he was believed <rolls eyes>. Had I been listened to and believed it wouldn't now be costing $507 to fix my poor van.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:23:01 AM)

i suppose being a very opinionate and blunt submissive is not the norm established by the "few" who feel differently. i was raised and taught to have opinions, shake things up and think outside the box. i'm not a bloody conformist nor will i ever be. i rather be a free-thinker than have someone tell me how to think.

btw thanks for the rum



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:25:21 AM)

well ofcourse men know best when it comes to vehicles i mean when you have a scratch on your paint work OFCOURSE you have to get a new engine fitted, cos the paint scratch causes a reaction which melts into the engine rendering it inoperable! Gosh dont you women know ANYTHING lol



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:27:37 AM)

But dont you think that sometimes people are trying to help you from an objective point of view rather than tell you what to do? And it was my pleasure with the rum shame your over-zealous night-watchman likes to snoop about on board and throw away your rum! (no names mentioned but i believe they shit in the woods lol)



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:27:38 AM)

i know how to change my own oil  and a flat tire - does that count?



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:29:18 AM)

already talked to that person - he says no matter what you said, he didn't toss my rum overboard but i did want more boots, blu!



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:30:44 AM)

Depends whether you know the correct torque settings for your vehicles wheels and what EXACT temperature you should put the oil in and whether its synthetic or not, well do you hmm?



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:32:40 AM)

Well re-read the messages, he sneaked out and threw the secret stash boxes over board did he not? well they had YOUR rum in them cos i put it there so hes lying lol also I am picking up 40 pairs of boots for you on my next delivery x



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:40:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bludemonn

Depends whether you know the correct torque settings for your vehicles wheels and what EXACT temperature you should put the oil in and whether its synthetic or not, well do you hmm?


for a Mazada 626 LX four door automatic it was Pensol 15W 40 and my torque setting for my wheels about 35

and no i didn't google my answers [;)]



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:42:41 AM)

'is about'? ha are you MAD your wheels will roll off darn it! So come on samba i want you to unleash your rage, tell me what gets under your skin?



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:44:56 AM)

oh i don't think you're ready to see the furious tigress in me, demon.  i don't look pretty when i do it



bludemonn -> RE: Devils Advocate (2/28/2007 9:46:15 AM)

Let it out Samba, tell me what infuriates you the most



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