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xBullx -> RE: Orgasm control (3/2/2007 12:48:06 PM)
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Greetings,
Now you said sub, not slave. I am going to assume as your worried about this you have rather deep personal feelings. I have no idea of the amount you know about her female life secrets but all girls have them. We are discussing a girl I assume. I'm in that gender neutral area of CM, thought I'd make a point of that. Just bear with me on a few thoughts
First women sadly enough tend to normally blame themselves for relationship and sexual frustrations or problems. My god, I sound like Doctor Ruth. Anyway, try doing as LA suggested, forget about the orgasm thing, so far as she knows, your the Top in this, you don't have to tell her all your motives. Love the girl. Sex for a woman starts at a glance, we men think it starts when we strip hope in bed and she shows up. some kissin, touchin, fuckin and boom the snoring commences.
It is about the experience for a woman. I’ll give you an example and you can go from there. One night I was at my desk and doing paper work, I glanced up and noticed my, uhmmm, female in the kitchen doing dishes. She had those damn nice butt jeans on, and a high cut t-shirt, oh damn! I had been working outside early and came in all sweaty, believe it or not, lotsa those girls like that sweat thing. Anyway, I got up from my desk and walked past her and groped her ass a bit. Wow you have a sweet butt I said, she smiled and kept doing dishes. I went in the rest room and brushed my teeth. Hey, I was planning on her getting lucky. I went out and leaned over her shoulder and whispered in her ear. I fiddled with her while she did dishes, I had turned on some music and spun her around and danced with her, it was slow, but had a quicker tempo, The dance was meant to and succeeded in being very erotic. I kissed her and bit her lip really damn hard, she made a loud ole squeal, I picked her up and threw her over my shoulder and carried her off top bed, I wasn’t subtle about much with her, I stripped her roughly and smiled and talked as you could see her eyes fall into that sub space. Well, needless to say without making this a porn story I used her well and the orgasms began rather soon.
You see she actually started having her sexual experience when I came in sweating, that is why she changed into the nice butt jeans and the high cut shirt, and for some reason she knows I like to see her do household chores…(is that a fetish by the way……. anybody?) Make her sex more of an experience and I’ll bet you will find those orgasms not all that far away. Talk with her about life things when not having sex, explore her personal fears and the things in her life that may have her feeling sex is not supposed to be a pleasure, it is for procreating, some of those poor girls from very religious homes are afraid of finding pleasure in sex. She needs you to help her find her sexual freedom and that happens way away from the bedroom or the dungeon for that matter.
Sorry to have subjected you to one of those long winded posts the Goreans have to put up with in me.
Live well neighbor,
Bull…………….Doctor Ruth’s understudy………….mooooooooooooooo
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