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valeca -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 4:51:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: amlonging

There are several things I either don't understand or disagree with in the OP.

I really do not care if you disagree, or say I am full of shit lady tiger….. This came from my heart and nothing will make me ashamed of it, NO ONE!! And maybe I am full of shit, so what.  I own my own feelings and opinions.



I think you may have gotten me and LaTigresse mixed up.  I didn't mention the word shit even once.  I asked questions and made counter-points.  I even took the time at the end of my post to suggest that it probably helped someone/made their day a little brighter, and that I believed you had good intentions when you posted.  How you interpreted it as making you ashamed, I can't figure out.  Disagreeing with your views is allowed, and you've no need to be ashamed for your thoughts.

Thanks for clearing up most of my questions.



amlonging -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 5:01:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: valeca

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ORIGINAL: amlonging

There are several things I either don't understand or disagree with in the OP.

I really do not care if you disagree, or say I am full of shit lady tiger….. This came from my heart and nothing will make me ashamed of it, NO ONE!! And maybe I am full of shit, so what.  I own my own feelings and opinions.



I think you may have gotten me and LaTigresse mixed up.  I didn't mention the word shit even once.  If you don't care if we agree or not, why post so venomously in response to the disagreement?

Thanks for clearing up most of my questions.



 No valeca, I meant what I said to LaTigresse, aka lady tiger (per her profile).  It was not meant for you, but for the intended as I responded to you, SJ and LT all in one posting.
 
Your welcome.



BDSM05478 -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 5:28:53 PM)

I believe that your post was indeed well intentioned and you spoke from the heart about your experience. Now if I understood everything, you sound like you have a lot of things to work on and you can't help anyone till you help yourself, well thats how my gramma put it.



mnottertail -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 5:35:15 PM)

reading her profile, I disagree, there is much ephemeral content in this, leading people down the primrose path, and I think it is intended to be that way 



LaTigresse -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 6:57:07 PM)

Hense my comment based upon my observation.



justheather -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 7:18:14 PM)

Who are Anne and Anna, and why do they need a home?



Kendra -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 7:28:39 PM)

has spent the last ten minutes googling    ''' penguins in hell.....''

 wonders if the four horsemen of the apocalypse have big crops...?
that was more fun..

k



TheShadows -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/27/2007 7:29:40 PM)

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amlonging
Correct again.  But in relationships, the sexual aspect is not always the driving force. In BDSM if a D does not connect in some way with an s on the sexual side, compatibility is not there. 


Wait....I can't be compatible with a submissive because we've never connected, or have no plans to connect, sexually?  We seem to be quite compatible with a slave that enjoys keeping our home and the Sadism that rewards her work, all with no sexual connection.  Imagine that.  In the future, I think you'd do well to omit the sweeping generalizations.

~MrsShadows~



ScreamerGirl -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/28/2007 3:33:19 PM)

Arrogance comes in all forms - dominant, submissive, switch - whatever.  It's not limited to the dominants of the species.

I'll admit, I stopped reading the inital post after looking again and seeing "sisters" in the subject line.  I don't call my fellow Systems Analysts "sister" and I certainly don't consider all female submissives "sister" either /shrug.  Call me jaded, but after 14 years off and on in the comumunity...just...no.

The only thing to say is this: Generalizations *suck* and not in a slurpy fun way.  Try to avoid them.  You'll enjoy your life more.



StellaByStarlite -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (2/28/2007 3:54:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

This  one goes out to all them heart stabbing bitches that decided that I should have known they were fucking somebody else by dint of their hint of changing the color of their nail polish, this one goes out to all the other girls that wanted to be my friend, this one goes out to all the girls who have ever had a headache---

This one goes out to all the girls I've loved before---

Julio Eglaisias




Play some Skynyrd! Free Bird!!



Emperor1956 -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/1/2007 6:18:35 AM)

kendra: 
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has spent the last ten minutes googling    ''' penguins in hell.....''

wonders if the four horsemen of the apocalypse have big crops...?
that was more fun..

k


Hee Hee.   When SJ and I agree, Kendra, it means its cold enough for penguins to share the Devil's domain.  And I'm glad you liked the 4 Horsemen -- wanna know a secret (WHISPERS)  Pestilence is a switch!

E.



apettiger -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/1/2007 7:03:24 AM)





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Pearls were once oysters !!

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no disrespect intended, but pearls were never oysters. pearls start out as oyster spit. they are caused by a grain of sand or some other irritant that the animal spits on to make it less painful and after a while it becomes a pearl.
                                                              respectfully
                                                                tyger



ShiftedJewel -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/1/2007 10:15:03 AM)

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Hee Hee.   When SJ and I agree, Kendra, it means its cold enough for penguins to share the Devil's domain


Damn straight...



freakgoddess -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/1/2007 11:14:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: amlonging

It’s called female supremacy and the attitude that comes with it.  Have you seen any mention of male supremacy?

you have got to be kidding. 



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/1/2007 3:47:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: amlonging
A genuine submissive is healthy and has a strong self esteem and doesn’t mind telling someone off respectfully....  yes girls, even I still learn.

i totally understand the context in which "healthy" was used in this sentence. (correct me if i'm wrong) it doesn't mean in the physical but in the mental sense because you need to have it all together (drama-free). Daddy can tell if a woman is "weak" and/or "strong" by having a conversation with Him - this is what make me really special in His eyes. He knew from my mannerisms and level of intelligence that i was a submissive who has the potential of being something more.

though i don't agree with your usage of "genuine", you did make a valid point that Daddy reminds me why He chose me as His daughter.  He knows this submissive doesn't take any guff from anyone who is disrespectful to her and that i will tell them off in a heartbeat without a second thought of whose feelings i would be hurting.

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Giving your submission to someone who is totally into you and not all about themselves and their dominance.

truth - i've had relationships in which my formers were more into their sexual desires/needs than me as a woman and submissive. it was more like "come hitther, fuck and then leave" session nothing what i have now with Daddy. He was the first man to take interest in me as a woman before any discussion about me as His daughter (then submissive). i seriously had a hard dealing with this type of treatment because i was treated more like a slut (not in a good way) than a woman.

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Look at the strong submissives….  Why are they strong, why do they stand up for themselves?  They are NOT submissive to the world, but to their special one.


thank you for posting this - another reason why i'm a special daughter/submissive to my DaddyDom.

i appreciate your pov/opinions posted in your original post

respectively yours,
(big)sambaman's lil girl



FukinTroll -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/1/2007 10:52:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: justheather

Who are Anne and Anna, and why do they need a home?


See the: "Help (Not made up)!!!" Thread.



myobedience -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/2/2007 2:53:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl.

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Giving your submission to someone who is totally into you and not all about themselves and their dominance.

truth - i've had relationships in which my formers were more into their sexual desires/needs than me as a woman and submissive. it was more like "come hitther, fuck and then leave" session nothing what i have now with Daddy. He was the first man to take interest in me as a woman before any discussion about me as His daughter (then submissive). i seriously had a hard dealing with this type of treatment because i was treated more like a slut (not in a good way) than a woman.
(big)sambaman's lil girl


I understand exactly what you say here sambama's girl.
I felt treated like an option, a pimp and someone who he could fuck like shit, but had no attention or affection.  I seemed to give my submission to the world as a whore whom he claimed, but wasnt proud enough to really be his.
He said it was because of disobedience that I was not allowed to be with him, but he made me be with everyone else.  He even told me my ass would NEVER be used by anyone but him. I should have walked away a that point.  I grew unhealthy.  I grew to dislike his "use" of me for his lust.   I felt as if I had been destroyed or sacrificed in the pursuit of his gratification of passion and lust.
 
It will never happen again.  If Sir did not tell me sharing or making me serve someone else is not in his agenda, but that if I did serve someone else sexually, HE WOULD BE THERE, I would have sreamed HARD LIMIT as loud as I could.
 
Emotional abuse, no matter how sumliminally or insiduously it comes upon someone, should always be checked at the door by a dom.  Lessons learned and better for it.
 



slaveish -> RE: an open letter to all my younger "sisters" who remain longing (3/3/2007 5:01:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: amlonging

This might be a rant of sorts… but I just want to hug every girl out there who is really looking, genuine and feel as if you have something incredibly special to give.


Sweetheart, you're close. We all have something incredibly special to give. Of course there will be those who take advantage ... but that's not only in this lifestyle. I am sorry that you have had some (obviously) bad experiences. I do hope that this new one will turn out to be what you're hoping for.

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ORIGINAL: amlonging
Be better than the dominants who tell you “kneel bitch.”


The other statements in this paragraph I agree with. ~smiling~ If I may point out, however, hearing "kneel bitch" at the right time ... or heck ... any time from my Master's mouth ... is a wonderful thing that makes me feel all tickly inside. It's the context and intent, not the words.

I wish you well, Baby Doll. Your message is so full of pain. I ache for you.



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