Mustardseed
Posts: 291
Joined: 5/27/2006 From: Seattle, WA Status: offline
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In my experience, guys with long and thick peni tend to think that's all they need to be able to seduce someone: not skill, not charm, not learning their partner's preferences. Also in my experience, guys with smaller and thinner peni tend to be so self-conscious about their situation that they refuse to really discuss how to please a partner, and try to ignore any discussion that would make them feel like they're compensating for size. Granted, this experience came along when I was younger and dealing with younger, less experienced men -- at least half of whom were outside of the active sex positive community. For a while, I thought I bottomed out at 7.5" in length for energetic sex, then I discovered that a lover with a 6" long penis could hit my cervix simply by being really creative with positioning. (Twister, anyone? hoo hoo.) I also thought I was a total girth queen, and discovered that about 2.2" around -- with lube -- is about my comfort limit. It really depends on the guy behind the dick, and what he's doing with it. The perfectly sized cock for vaginal sex is probably not going to be the perfectly sized one for oral sex which likely won't be the ideal size for anal sex. I swear, the more I think about it the more I want a date with Jack Nicholson's character from The Witches of Eastwick.
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