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Focus50 -> RE: Warm Welcome?? (3/3/2007 10:09:29 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyLucifer
Im really confused as to why some Domme felt the need to send me a nasty e-mail out of no where. She told me I was confuseing Domination with beeing spoiled and i dont know where she even got that from. Is the entire community like this?
I'll freely admit I have my own predjudices about young dom/mes, particularly *teenagers*, who are supposedly ready to take charge and responsibility of another, even though they have practically ZERO life skills and experience themselves. So when they come to the Boards looking for ideas etc, I tend to push a few of their buttons to see how they respond - mostly looking to see if they can at least control themselves under pressure. Most can't and let me have "both barrels" amidst a spectacular spoilt brat attack but a few have impressed over the years....
And what does this have to do with your dilemma?
Maybe I'm not the only one dubious about teen dom/mes, only they're using your personal mail rather than my preferred public msg board to "see what you've got".... A rhetorical question (for you to ask and answer of/to yourself), but how did you respond to this person's intrusion?
You've seen prison shows/movies etc, yes? What happens to the young and fresh faced re the "pecking order"? They get pushed to see what they've got in response! The young have no proven track record and nor do you (presumably) re being a Domme ready to bark commands and assume control etc. Putting up a profile is your right and you can describe yourself any way you like. But the act of doing so invites public scrutiny, esp for one apparently too young to be "commanding respect" without showing us why.
Personally, assuming you did nothing to this person first, I think it's way too rude and presumptuous to confront you via private email. Certainly I'd probably have a dig if you wanted to know ways to control someone in particular circumstances etc, because I acknowledge I do have predjudices born of *experience*. You're young, EXPECT ro be tested, even by strangers with no business.... And when they do, you can stamp your feet and hurl insults, as many have back at me (thus proving my point) - ORRRR, you can confront them in a controlled and thoughtful manner.
Hmmmm, I wonder what you did....!?! (No answer required)
Welcome to the Forums, btw... [:)] And life in the real World....
Focus.
Edited because I loathe typo's - and too proud to use a spell-check.... lol
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