ExSteelAgain -> RE: At what point do you consider yourself exclusive? (3/12/2007 3:28:28 AM)
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When people first start playing/becoming intimate with each other, it is an awkward time because guidelines are not yet in place. It leads to more than one misunderstanding and argument. The two people have started to feel passion together and communicate on that close, intimate level, but there are lingering past things to clear up and the future is still noncommittal. Jealousy is probably at a high during this time frame. It is a time of many break-ups. Things done that weaken the potential relationship will be remembered and discussed forever, but they are really a result of no clear definition of the relationship. Eventually, you decide, what the relationship is and what guidelines will be followed. If there is trust enough to build, things work out fine. If one party can’t uphold the trust of the other, things tend to go south.
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