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Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 6:31:54 AM

findmedaddy

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Are you living, full-time, with spouse or a partner or partners? Have you been living with this person or these people for more than a year? And does this relationship or do these relationships fall under the rubric of bdsm (as broadly defined)?

Edited to add that I am not in such a relationship.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 6:32:46 AM

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Yes, are you?

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 6:34:46 AM

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YES and going on 7 years,our relationship started as vanilla even tho we both were deeply immersed within the lifestyle..bounty

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 6:54:43 AM

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no relationship

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 6:59:11 AM

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i am not even having a relationship with my vibrator... Thats how bad things are right now...

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 7:06:17 AM

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No, I am not.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 7:09:29 AM

acissej

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Yes, I'm living with my husband. We've been together for over eight years, but only married for the past two and a half years. It's a bit complicated, but, yes, it can be said our relationship falls under BDSM.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 7:15:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

i am not even having a relationship with my vibrator... Thats how bad things are right now...

Oh. No.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 8:47:54 AM

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Yes...I think.....kind of....it's complicated.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:19:28 AM

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Yes. Living together for nearly two years (it's hard to say when that started exactly, it was more a case of her not going home than actually moving in) and married for 16 months. There isn't a 24/7 D/s dynamic, but WIITWD is deeply imbedded in the relationship. It's part of who we are.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:21:56 AM

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<------ giggles hysterically

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:24:11 AM

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I am in a relationship, but we do not live together. He is about 15 minutes away. Ours is a very well rounded if poorly timed mix of vanilla and BDSM and we are going on 9 months together, most of which had been very long distance. The plan is to move the relationship to full time live in, however until after school that just isnt plausible.
DV

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:25:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

i am not even having a relationship with my vibrator... Thats how bad things are right now...

Kitten, things will be just fine. He isnt ignoring you, change his batteries and that should give you back your "spark"

**giggle**

You may now return to your regularly scheduled posting.
DV

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:44:33 AM

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Relationship....

Relationship ....

I'm not sure I remember what the word means :(

:'(

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:48:54 AM

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She's seems to be in a relationship....I'm always on the look out for the BBD.....The uncertainty of it all is what makes it so damn compelling. Yes, she is a very lucky gal.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:49:11 AM

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hi
We have been together for over a year. We have been living together for over 10 months. He is my Dom and i am His sub
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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:49:49 AM

cjenny

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Yes. No. Sorta? He lives over 1000 miles away & we only see each other 4 times a year.

I don't know what to call it. I love/need/want him with every fiber of my being but I flip flop on calling it a relationship.

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:55:53 AM

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Not at this time, no. Were I to find someone compatible, I prefer separate households for awhile. Relationships are complicated enough as it is (with D/s thrown in--even more so).

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 9:58:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

i am not even having a relationship with my vibrator... Thats how bad things are right now...

Kitten, things will be just fine. He isnt ignoring you, change his batteries and that should give you back your "spark"

**giggle**

You may now return to your regularly scheduled posting.
DV

LOL LOL, no really i think i broke her....

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RE: Are you in a relationship? - 3/4/2007 10:10:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

i am not even having a relationship with my vibrator... Thats how bad things are right now...

Kitten, things will be just fine. He isnt ignoring you, change his batteries and that should give you back your "spark"

**giggle**

You may now return to your regularly scheduled posting.
DV

LOL LOL, no really i think i broke her....

Get a new one, kitten! You have to!

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