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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 2:53:05 PM   
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Greetings,

Hell, the first I watched that feature I had more guys reading it then gals, then I figured that meant my posts might be half ass worth knowing who I was. I look at profiles of men that seem to have their act together, to know more about them. I was a bit leary about the male subs at first, but I'm listed as a couple so they are surely only curious as well. I like the feature, though I have my eye on a couple slutlings and they haven't looked me up.....awwww shucks.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 2:56:29 PM   
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Howdy,

Yes it gives a count, it says you l;ooked at mine 672.003 times.......................Nahhhh, I'm only serious.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 4:07:31 PM   
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I cannot imagine the lunacy involved to get one's panties in a bunch because someone looked at a profile or put them on their favorites. To me this is a form of insanity and self-delusion because this is a site where you are allowed to do those things. There are no rules to abide by when viewing someone's profile. The need for getting a life is extreme with people that get upset over little things like this.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 4:53:42 PM   
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Block and ignore....If it's a guy tell them you were just looking through the profiles of  Dom/sub men that you thought you could get to blow you..then block immediately...lol

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 5:01:21 PM   
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not getting hate mail but mail from male subbies looking for Dommes wondering i'f i'm ready for some real online fun. i'm neither a Domme nor am i looking for some online fun.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 6:17:59 PM   
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No hate mail here....  No luv mail... No might be interested mail... No spam mail....  No mail period...  lmao!!!!

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 7:45:22 PM   
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Meah. Nutjobs are everywhere. But they seem to be more prevelant online. At least you aren't related! 

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 7:46:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gauge

I cannot imagine the lunacy involved to get one's panties in a bunch because someone looked at a profile or put them on their favorites. To me this is a form of insanity and self-delusion because this is a site where you are allowed to do those things. There are no rules to abide by when viewing someone's profile. The need for getting a life is extreme with people that get upset over little things like this.


I agree I think some people are nuts or have to much time on their hands.  Sometimes I just look at profiles for the
hell of it, who cares?

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 8:06:45 PM   
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I did get an email today asking why I was looking at their profile. Usually I would just ignore it but this time I sent a short note back stating I had seen one of their posts in the forum and wanted to find out more about them. Suprised they sent me back a thank you. So not all mail is hate mail. Some are just curious to know why you would be looking them up.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/4/2007 8:41:02 PM   
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You can view me, I won't hate on you, I promise!

I had an email from a fellow poster that said I was weird for being in a D/s relationship with my father. I chalked it up to ignorance.... anyone that has been reading this forum for more than a month should know that there is a such thing as a Daddy Dom, but I guess this gal missed those threads.. or she intentionally misunderstood just to be a biatch.. her problem not mine.

This person that railed against you.. screw em! If they don't want to be viewed they should take their profile offline.. if you ask me it is a little odd to have a profile you expect no one to  look at.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 7:31:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


I had an email from a fellow poster that said I was weird for being in a D/s relationship with my father.


LMAO.....!!!!!! Now that made my day! Tooooo funny......

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 8:44:41 AM   
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Too true. Why have a profile if you don't want people to view it. If you're looking for somebody that is the bait. Anyone who has a problem with people who read their public profile need some serious help. Not even psychological help, help with logic and reasoning.

If you think I am totally nucking futs after reading my profile fine. If it turns you on, contact me, if it turns you off leave me alone. That's how that works.

I really do try to see both sides of an issue, but I am having trouble with this one. To take offense at someone viewing a profile that you yourself put up there for the world to see is pretty off the wall.

What is not in my profile is not there for a reason. I know there is more there than most people put in, but there is still alot more to me. For one I am a borderline sociopath. I have been doing what I want whenever I want since I was 12. Nobody could ever control me, Parents, cops, nobody. Of course I got into trouble a few times, but now I know better. For one, don't do stupid shit unless you have a good reason, and two, if you really have to, don't get caught.

Would you put that in a profile ? Hell no. Actually what I am saying is that you have control over what is in that profile. You can have no opinion on every question if you like. I don't think that would be productive though. At least let people know what you like.

I think I'll adopt the color if someone chides me for viewing their profile as I do when I run into someone incredibly ignorant in real life. My response is generally "It takes all kinds, and apparently we got em".

Someone actually got on your case for reading their profile ? We got em.

This is really sweet. They get miffed because you viewed their profile, then what do they do ? Do they view your's commiting the same mortal sin ? Or do they mail you something nasty without looking first ?

You remember the asshole in the SUV who had to punch it to get ahead of you on the freeway only to have to slow down the whole lane to get back into the lane he needed to be in ? Remember the ditzy one who would have been run off the road if you hadn't consiously moved to let them on ? Something which you are under no obligation to do I might add, you just did it to avoid being in a 26 car pileup. ?

Well the reality of it is that some of those people are going to leak into here from time to time. As much as the moderators try, they can't be perfect. Perhaps people convicted of sheer stupidity on the net should be forced to a new email domain, for example fred (at) iamanasshole(dot)net

It's the same concept as the yellow plates for convicted drunk drivers, or, Jeff Foxworthy's idea "Here's your sign".

That's not to say they shouldn't be allowed in. You can have alot of fun with stupid people, I just hope everyone tries to be nice. Don't scare them away. (lol) On the other hand if they are fred(at)iamREALLYanasshole(dot)net perhaps their application needs serious review.

Enjoy my ramblings, and wish me long life. I am the only MF I know who on a job application when it asks "ever been arrested ?" and I put yes, and then it asks "Why ?" I put "Got caught, what are you stupid or something ?". And then get the job !

Actually I almost hope to get hate mail from somebody for looking at their profile. I won't take offense, I'll think about it and respond. I'll show them what a real brain can do. I am not afraid.

T

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 7:12:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyrdRich

I must be showing up on a lot of lists, because I click over to see who a person is from the forums all the time. I hope it doesn't show multiple views, because one poster's wouldn't come up until my fourth attempt (she'll think I AM stalking her, LOL).

No hate mail over that yet, probably just a matter of time though.


No, I think it only shows up once...hey, I feel left out...you havn't viewed me......

Oh whoa is me.......




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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 7:26:16 PM   
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Shame that the terms of service forbid it, because it would be great to post the names of people who do things like that... next time they log in, 500 people have viewed their profile! OMGWTF! 
i figure it's only a matter of time before something like that happens to me, attitudes towards male subs being what they are... fuck it, drive on...

...dave

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 7:28:44 PM   
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I get the same crap all the time....

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 7:33:39 PM   
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M.
I keep looking at your profile because I like the pictures.
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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 7:52:31 PM   
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Wait a minute, is that really against TOS ? To post the username of someone who got shitty about you viewing their profile ?

OK, I know you can't quote their entire email, but there is nothing wrong with viewing their profile. I could see them sending 500 mails "What are you looking at ?', Ctrl+c, Ctrl+C, Ctrl+C, Ctrl+C.

Life is a trip, no I don't mean a jouney, I mean like when you catch your foot on a wire or something and go @#$#%^&%#@@%%.

Hmmm, that would make a good signature.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 8:28:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyrdRich

    I must be showing up on a lot of lists, because I click over to see who a person is from the forums all the time.  I hope it doesn't show multiple views, because one poster's wouldn't come up until my fourth attempt (she'll think I AM stalking her, LOL).

   No hate mail over that yet, probably just a matter of time though.

Nah, it just shows up at the top of their list when you view them, and if you scan your mouse over it, it says the date & time they viewed.  So feasibly if you're always at the top of their list with a new time & date, they may get a little creeped out, lol.

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/5/2007 8:39:00 PM   
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Huh.  I guess I haven't been on enough recently because I wasn't aware of the new feature.

But hey, if it makes you feel better, I got an e-mail the other day containing, "Suck my dick," and nothing else.  LOL.  So I kindly replied, "No, no.  Suck mine."  And blocked.  Usually I don't cave into that kind of temptation, but the opportunity was too good not to indulge. 

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RE: Who’s view me leads to hate mail - 3/6/2007 4:12:50 AM   
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I havent gotten any hate mail yet.  :(  Clearly I am slacking and need to get off my ass and start randomly viewing profiles.

Yeah yeah, I know, I need a more productive hobby.


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