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xxxWENCHxxx -> slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 11:41:58 AM)
[:)] Hi there, i am a fairly new slave (mere months) but have been 'hanging' around the BDSM rooms learning what i can off/on for the last three years .... my Master has been patient with me during all this time ..... my request is not unique by any means but i am very much in need of friendship with other female slaves close in age to myself (55 - yes, i am a speed limit, lol) ... my Master has guided me and i agree that it is what i am strongly in need of ... what am i in need of ?? knowledge, friendship, insight all from someone in my age range, someone i can talk to on a regular basis .... i have no real friends or girlfriends my age that are in the lifestyle and it's very isolating .... there are issues and such that come up between Master and i that He need not deal with yet i do, i know someone out there understands what i am going thru .... i look forward to hearing from you and ending this isolation ... [:D]

liljoy -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 11:48:27 AM)
you have mail on the other side

MasterFireMaam -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 11:58:00 AM)
I highly recommend you look to your local community. It's not uncommon to find women your age. Master Fire

viperess -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 1:40:54 PM)
Greetings, As one close to the 45 year mark i do understand but there are a few of us mmmm well seasoned slaves still tottering around with our walkers and canes *grins. you have mail floating about on the other side.[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m25.gif[/image]

MistressNoName -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 2:05:57 PM)
I agree with Master Fire. Best place to start is to seek supportive Lifestyle groups in your area. If there are none, and tho I don't know where in CA you live, exactly, but I would think there is something local out there, but IF there is truly nothing or you truly cannot work it out with your Master's help and guidance to get to some group mtgs/events, then check out some online groups...no, I'm not referring to chats on CM...tho they can sometimes be fun, they tend to be much too transient and not focused enough on actual Lifestyle issues for my taste. There are yahoo groups, for instance out there, that tend to be focused on a particular segment of the Lifestyle community or on a particular topic. There is likely something out there to suit your socialization needs. But first stop should be around your area. I've found the groups I've been involved with to be most helpful and supportive in many ways and I've met some truly wonderful people in the process. All the best, MNN

proudsub -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 4:58:16 PM)
Feel free to email me on the other side. However i consider myslef a submissive, not slave and am older than you.[:)]

NControlofU -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 5:22:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxxWENCHxxx [:)] Hi there, i am a fairly new slave (mere months) but have been 'hanging' around the BDSM rooms learning what i can off/on for the last three years .... my Master has been patient with me during all this time ..... my request is not unique by any means but i am very much in need of friendship with other female slaves close in age to myself (55 - yes, i am a speed limit, lol) ... my Master has guided me and i agree that it is what i am strongly in need of ... what am i in need of ?? knowledge, friendship, insight all from someone in my age range, someone i can talk to on a regular basis .... i have no real friends or girlfriends my age that are in the lifestyle and it's very isolating .... there are issues and such that come up between Master and i that He need not deal with yet i do, i know someone out there understands what i am going thru .... i look forward to hearing from you and ending this isolation ... [:D] Feel free to write to my 50 year old slave, slavegirljoy on CM and on Yahoo she is a_need2serve. She also keeps a journal on another site that you can read. She has been a submissive and a slave for many years. She is very open and honest and enjoys meeting other female slaves in her age group. We are a 24/7 Master-slave couple and we live in the real world and live our way of life within the constraints of real life. Good luck to you on your journey into the wonderful world of slavery.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/5/2007 7:59:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam I highly recommend you look to your local community. It's not uncommon to find women your age. Master Fire Agree with Master Fire here,someone within your own community that you can talk with would be best..a face to face supportive "lifestyle sub friend" is always best....Tempting

xxxWENCHxxx -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 1:23:53 AM)
what a wonderful bunch of sisters out there ... reaching out .... you will all be getting a response .... and those of Y/you who posted here, know that Y/you are thanked and appreciated .... there many of U/us "older" slaves than i imagined so it's the start of something great .... glad i posted to the boards and will work on not being so shy and post more often .... please keep posting to this thread ...

eyesopened -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 2:15:52 AM)
i really believe a great many submissive women put their lifestyle on hold while they are busy raising children and my personal experience has been that within munch groups the average age is well over 35 and 45 year old and older is commonplace. This friday i will turn 54 (well, that's what the calendar says but i'm sure it lies) and frankly it was my maturity that was an attractive factor to the wonderful, fabulous, excellent Dominant i have had the recent honor to serve. Feel free to contact me anytime.

goodpet -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 6:53:38 AM)
Hi, you have gotten a lot of good advice. The local community is a good place to start, or somewhere near to you to find face to face friendships. There are many experienced sub that might mentor you also, not to interfere with your Master but to talk and share from the slave's point of view. Many slave type ladies are busy with life in their 30's and early 40's. So we do see an emergence of ladies coming into the life at 45'ish for the first time. It is when they are freer of the kids and family obligations. Some can do both but many choose to wait till they have more time free. They are still moms but the time commitment is lessen. Read more of the posts, and see if you find a sub/slave who posts interests you and then you can contact them with questions and ask them to begin talking online with you also. Good luck and welcome to the lifestyle. ~ann

onestandingstill -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 9:39:58 AM)
You have more mail on the other side. I'd also like to say indeed these forums are like gold. The search feature at the top is an incredible way to get questions asked you never have to really ask in public as someone else already did. I often come here for comfort and guidance. Of course I have a huge R/t community I get information and advice from, R/t friends I talk to as well, but these forums are an incredible tool in the tool box if used right. Welcome to the boards, suzanne

Nosathro -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 9:46:43 AM)
greetings This maybe something you and your Master may already know by now..but I can provide you a link in yahoo of a BDSM group that has munchies and such in your area. Be Well Nosathro

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 10:10:59 AM)
welcome.AGE ,size nor colur makes a slave.its the size of the heart and a burning desire to serve that does,0F course just the opinion of this ol" master and subject to change....bounty

peterK50 -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 1:01:43 PM)
I'm a better slave now then I was in my 20's, 30's or 40's. Just ask me, I'll tell you [:)]. Hang in there.

junecleaver -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/6/2007 2:43:26 PM)
Even though I'm 'young'.... I didn't have much luck finding female submissive friends online. Every time I write someone, they never respond. It's quite sad. Kind of makes me more empathetic to the HNG plight. But the good news, the few events I've attended have been filled with friendly people.

absoluteTPEslave -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/25/2007 4:18:11 AM)
ill be 45 in a few months ,,,does that count any? oops......im not an owned slave well, i been in this life since i was 21 real deep when i was owned anyways write if you like and congrats on your collar quote: ORIGINAL: xxxWENCHxxx [:)] Hi there, i am a fairly new slave (mere months) but have been 'hanging' around the BDSM rooms learning what i can off/on for the last three years .... my Master has been patient with me during all this time ..... my request is not unique by any means but i am very much in need of friendship with other female slaves close in age to myself (55 - yes, i am a speed limit, lol) ... my Master has guided me and i agree that it is what i am strongly in need of ... what am i in need of ?? knowledge, friendship, insight all from someone in my age range, someone i can talk to on a regular basis .... i have no real friends or girlfriends my age that are in the lifestyle and it's very isolating .... there are issues and such that come up between Master and i that He need not deal with yet i do, i know someone out there understands what i am going thru .... i look forward to hearing from you and ending this isolation ... [:D]

curiouslyseeking -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/25/2007 5:51:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER welcome.AGE ,size nor colur makes a slave.its the size of the heart and a burning desire to serve that does,0F course just the opinion of this ol" master and subject to change....bounty *I love this sentiment, Bounty!* *Allow me to throw a caveat...* *Finding female submissives/slave friends sounds wonderful and you will get all kinds of advice because we love to "give" it and love to "help".* *Just please make sure you watch the fruit on the tree of a submissive, and make sure that you are not taking problems, issues, thoughts that should be given to your Master first and foremost.* *And no matter what age, please resign yourself to the fact to never start a Master bash, something I find happens most often in submissive friendships.* *I wish you much success on your journey...* *(older, and awaiting to growing older and older still at the feet of my Master)*

SusanofO -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (3/25/2007 11:24:37 AM)
Feel free to e-mail me. I am 47 and just started investigating all of this about 4 years ago for myself. - Susan

whipingherfeet -> RE: slaves over 45ish (no offense to the young) (4/12/2007 6:46:36 AM)
A OLDER slave IS THE BEST .A OLDER slave IS WELL TRAIN .AND WILL OBEY HER MASTER TO THE TEE

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