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Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:01:15 PM   
unsung


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Status: offline 		Here's a question for ya all.

Are there forms of play/sessions that are reasonable while a woman is having her menstral cycle?  I understand some have no problems with play during, it is not my thing though especially any consideration of penetration of any form.

Just curious what forms of play could be possible during this timing?  TIA

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:06:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		The game does not get called on account of rain.. but some towels need to be nearby.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:09:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sternhand4

The game does not get called on account of rain.. but some towels need to be nearby.


I love this :)

Play during menstrual cycle is the best...I'm horny as hell and desperate for penetration at that time. I have only been with one person who objected to playing at that time and I've glad that relationship is over...Nothing turns a girl on more than knowing that a guy is willing to have sex with her (especially oral!) during that time.

Though of course, proper consideration must be given to the subject of blood born diseases.


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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:13:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you're prepared to properly deal with the health risks of blood exchange (latex is your friend), there's really no limit on what you can or can't do that you don't already have as limits. It will depend on your comfort as well as your partner's comfort with it.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:15:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: unsung

Here's a question for ya all.

Are there forms of play/sessions that are reasonable while a woman is having her menstral cycle?  I understand some have no problems with play during, it is not my thing though especially any consideration of penetration of any form.

Just curious what forms of play could be possible during this timing?  TIA

(edit for spelling)



Blow jobs and butt sex.  Its really just to messy to be going near the (what Mo'nique calls) figgy pudding during that time of the month.

C~


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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:16:59 PM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		I've never had a problem with playing with someone or having sex with someone during their period.  As long as they were comfortable with it, it didn't bother me.  As noted by Sternhand...towels are good to have on hand and a wash basin with some warm water and a wash cloth. 

I've found that many women are...like geekygirl...even more horny during their period.  The fact that I didn't care about their period sure worked to my advantage in my younger days...

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:22:28 PM   
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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 3:41:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing like jumping into a nice blood puddle!....After I'm done with a good ramming of a period laden sub susie I have noticed that the blood leaves somewhat of a "Rorschach test" on my stomach...I always ask sub susie what she sees?  She always answers "clouds."....She's so dumb...But so cute.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:01:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		My partner's nickname for me is Vesuvius.....i do tend to erupt during that time. He is the first person who didn't care and was almost even turned on byt he idea. Amazingly, i always saw it as taboo and kinda icky until i met him. Now.....hey it's not that bad. there are always drop cloths....(especially when i ride the sybian)

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:10:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have always had this as a taboo ever since I lost my virginity actually.  Mind you my pms is wicked as it comes so perhaps the 2 combined is not a good combination.  

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:16:29 PM   
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I always saw it as taboo and kinda icky



Two of my goals that I have especially attuned to in BDSM relationships over the years are as follows:

1.  We should embrace our sexuality and remove guilt concerning our sexuality
2.  We should do what we can to remove 'taboo' from our personal language.

I might not always be successful in easing any emotional discomfort to a woman during her time(s), but I'm always very supportive and willing to show myself ready to participate in any and all ways.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:23:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: unsung
Here's a question for ya all.

Are there forms of play/sessions that are reasonable while a woman is having her menstral cycle?  I understand some have no problems with play during, it is not my thing though especially any consideration of penetration of any form.

Just curious what forms of play could be possible during this timing?  TIA

(edit for spelling)

If you really can't stand doing anything that might cause you to come into contact with menstrual blood, then you can only do anything and everything that doesn't require touching the vaginal area.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_718165/mpage_1/key_menstrual/tm.htm#718373
sex during heavy flow period

http://www.collarchat.com/m_684595/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#684607
Your slave and her menstruation

http://www.collarchat.com/m_606563/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#606939
Dealing with PMS as a sub

http://www.collarchat.com/m_502696/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#502835
Menstrual Cycle...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_124443/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#124443
PMS and the submissive

http://www.collarchat.com/m_146172/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#146172
menstruation and sex

http://www.collarchat.com/m_222485/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#222485
should a sub be allowed

http://www.collarchat.com/m_420217/mpage_1/key_period/tm.htm#420217
period play?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_28039/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#28039
serious question about pms

http://www.collarchat.com/m_366774/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#366774
PMS from hell?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_166316/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#166329
That time

The Rose Colored Week

How do you like your dom/master treating you on your period?




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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:35:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Frik I knew I should have done the search.  Thank you LuckyAlbatross.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:38:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dont see any limitation here ... well OK  maybe if your visiting Aunt Mae you might want to keep the mess down a little in her Victorian guest room, but otherwise, it all washes up and off.  As for health risks, IF this is a consideration,you need to be cautious of ALL body fluids, and yes, Mr. Latex is your friend.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 5:50:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having my period does not limit his play with me.  He actually enjoys having sex during my period because my cervix is extra sensitive and it hurts like a bitch.  Other times, I enjoy the sensation of him bumping my cervix, so he gets a sadistic thrill out of hearing me cry out in pain during that time.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 6:07:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Gee-pers kyraofMists I just got cramps, lol.

Thanks everyone for the feedback.  I will have a fair amount of reading to do, and some personal mind phk to get beyond this hangup.  Thanks again.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 6:23:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Is it reasonable to play with a person who is menstruating? Sure, it's reasonable. Exposure to menstrual blood involves risks, just like exposure to "normal" blood. Like just about everything else, some people are indifferent, some people find it icky, and some people find it hot.

If tampons or cups are inserted, I'll happily play with someone who is menstruating. I don't find *menstruation* hot, but if it's not involved in the play or sex, and thus I can ignore the fact that she is violently excreting the lining of her uterus, I'll happily play with someone. I've decided that it's a matter of taste for me, not a proper taboo--I don't think menstrual blood is naughty or wrong, I just don't think it's sexy. All types of non-genital play are easily fair game, and the rest is a matter of taste, absorbence and nitrile. It's important to note that pain tolerance, threshold, and processing can vary at different stages in a person's cycle, and what you had a great time doing last week may be too intense or not intense enough this week.

Monica

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 6:26:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		bondage, s&m types of play, giving blowjobs, orgasm denial, you name it. there's a WHOLE heap of stuff you can do without putting your dick in someone...the amount of time we actually spend having vaginal intercourse is a teeny tiny fraction of the time we spend in sexual activities.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 6:29:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Reasonable is entirely up to you. My dominant continues to enjoy use of me fully during my cycle. The only difference is that he won't go down on me.

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RE: Squick or squish (curious) - 3/6/2007 6:31:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: unsung

Here's a question for ya all.

Are there forms of play/sessions that are reasonable while a woman is having her menstral cycle?  I understand some have no problems with play during, it is not my thing though especially any consideration of penetration of any form.

Just curious what forms of play could be possible during this timing?  TIA

(edit for spelling)



It does not bother me one way or the other, you can always insert a Insted cup that catches the blood in a little cup inserted inside like a tampon but sits over your cerivx like a diaphram,  and you can enjoy activites sans the blood.  These are located in you feminine hygene aisle of most major stores.  Personally I prefer to use those as it is less mess to clean up and my partner can still enjoy oral if he is still inclined.  There are also several other similar products available online, google is your friend.


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