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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/7/2007 6:54:34 PM

Mustardseed

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I can bottom to pretty much either gender. In actually being submissive, I'm mostly likely to behave myself with butch women and men. I'm bisexual, leaning more towards men in both experience and preference.

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/7/2007 7:26:02 PM

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I don't know. I'd like to think I could bottom to a woman. If for some reason my Dominant wanted me to, I'm sure I could successfully do it. I couldn't have a long-term type of relationship with someone of the same gender.

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/7/2007 8:51:01 PM

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i am not sure i could have a long term relationship with a woman only because i never have. Before being enslaved i considered myself hetero. Since surrendering to the TPE i believe i could surrender to a woman, if She could indeed master me. Hopefully i will never have to find out, as i am in my bliss surrendered to the One who owns me.

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/7/2007 11:06:44 PM

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As far as non sexual bottoming, I've done that with both women and men and thoroughly enjoyed myself. For me to submit and be sexual, it has to be to a man. I have no sexual interest in women and for me to submit, it has to be in a full relationship including sex.

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/8/2007 9:52:50 AM

moki1984

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No disrespect towards dommes....but I could never and will never play with them. I can only submit to a strong man.

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/8/2007 2:49:29 PM

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I prefer to top only women and submit to only men.

That doesn't mean I'm not open to either of the other possibilities, those are just my preferences.

I have in fact topped men, and submitted to one woman. I am more physically attracted to men, so obviously that's where my submissive nature is more comfortable. As far as topping is concerned, I just don't really enjoy topping men /shrug

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/8/2007 3:48:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: swtrayn
If you're going to play with A Dom/Top, does the person's gender matter to you and if so what is your preference?"

I would play with whoever he told me to play with. However, if given a choice it would depend on the type of play for me. Impact play, I would want to bottom to a man. I can get aggressive during impact play and if a woman were to be topping me by herself, I think I would freak. Sensation play could be either man or woman.

I read a post by LA once where she described what she does in wax play and ever since I have wanted to bottom to her during wax play.

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/8/2007 4:21:48 PM

Zsuzsanna

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quote:

ORIGINAL: swtrayn

Ok, I will admit, I hyjacked this question from the "Ask a Mistress" forum.
I found it interesting and thought I would ask it in this forum.

The question there was "If you're going to play with a submissive/slave, does the person's gender matter to you and if so what is your preference?"

So, I am asking.. .

If you're going to play with A Dom/Top, does the person's gender matter to you and if so what is your preference?"

Hummm... I'm bi so both would be excellent... especially if it was at the same time!

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/9/2007 12:04:24 AM

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I have mostly just submitted to men and so I think that would be my preference but I would like to serve a Domme though

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RE: If you're going to play...... - 3/9/2007 6:57:56 AM

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Thank you for taking the time to answer my post. I have enjoyed reading your answers and reasons behind them.

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