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cuckolding...what it means to You - 3/7/2007 1:56:38 PM

solvr70

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i hear the term used from time to time, with varying meanings.
- the Cpl with the sub-m has to be married or not
- the sub-m is never allowed sex with the Dominant Woman or not
- the sub-m just cleans up after the Dominant Woman and Her lover have been together or is there to service and be taken by Both.
- the sub-m is present when the Dominant Woman and Her lover are together vs being made to wait in another room, or not even present when the play is happening.

so.....what does it mean to You?

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RE: cuckolding...what it means to You - 3/7/2007 2:11:29 PM

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It has more of the traditional meaning for me. The Female Dominant gets to have as many sex partners as she chooses, including the cuck, if she wants, and the cuck's sexual activity is limited to only her. In other words, she is poly but he is mono. Doesn't have anything to do with who watched who or whatever, in my book.

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RE: cuckolding...what it means to You - 3/7/2007 2:20:20 PM

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The way I see it is as follows,The woman has as many partners as she wishes and her " man" is submissive to her wishes..IT a form of humiliation as the cuck is used as a clean up boy after she has had sex ETC...The woman can be domme or vanilla the only difference is she choose to use her partner in this fashion...I like to use cuck couples its fun as I watch the slut boy in his glory " cleaning" up.... bounty

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RE: cuckolding...what it means to You - 3/7/2007 2:43:28 PM

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This is my definition also:

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It has more of the traditional meaning for me. The Female Dominant gets to have as many sex partners as she chooses, including the cuck, if she wants, and the cuck's sexual activity is limited to only her. In other words, she is poly but he is mono. Doesn't have anything to do with who watched who or whatever, in my book.

Whatever kinks are included to enhance that relationship, goody for them.

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RE: cuckolding...what it means to You - 3/7/2007 8:22:49 PM

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Being jealous, which probably indicates some level of insecurity on my part, the idea of this is both frightening and, if I am to be honest, exciting. Nothing quite says submission to me like being forced to hear about your loved one's sexual exploits, or even watching them first hand. One thing though, how does one get past the idea of STDs in this type of situation? I think I have a firm grasp on how things such as HIV, herpes, etc. are transmitted (as should everyone), but I might find it a bit hard as a sub male to actually bring myself to "clean" up after a lover.

As I said, in theory this is both exciting and shaming (which may have something to do with it being exciting), but in practice, I do wonder how many people actually do it - and still play as safely as possible. Am I concerned over nothing here, or have others had the same thoughts? Just curious.

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