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Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/7/2007 9:39:19 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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Status: offline 		I can only speak for myself when I say that for me to have an orgasm, I have to close my eyes and "open my filing cabinet".  If I don't do that, no matter how good something feels, battery powered or not, I just do not have an orgasm.  In days of yore, I have had an vibrator strapped to me for hours and just couldn't do it unless I closed my eyes and fantasized, even if the fantasy was about having a strategically placed vibrator strapped to me!!
Am I an anomaly or is there anyone else out there like this?
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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 1:11:34 AM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		i'm the same way. But i tend to laugh whenever i'm having an orgasim and yes for me to actually get into it i as well need to close my eyes.

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 5:24:12 AM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		Well that's convenient - if someone is trying to tease you and not let you cum until they are ready they just need to make sure your eyes stay open :P

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 6:25:58 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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ORIGINAL: Aubre

Well that's convenient - if someone is trying to tease you and not let you cum until they are ready they just need to make sure your eyes stay open :P

Delicious!

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 6:39:17 AM   
Aubre


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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

Delicious!


Hehe I am sure there are a lot of people who would kill for the ability to stay in that just-before-orgasm state for as long as they wanted to.

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 6:56:53 AM   
fastcars1


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Status: offline 		That's where a good sub comes in handy. He must love pleasing Her for as long as She enjoys it or wants it.

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 7:02:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: Aubre

Well that's convenient - if someone is trying to tease you and not let you cum until they are ready they just need to make sure your eyes stay open :P

Delicious!


   Correct Me if I'm wrong, but if we're talking "forced" orgasm here, then that is the opposite of what I'm reading. I very much enjoy forced orgasm play. Fortunately, My pet is multi, so whether it's her bound in some way with a device in/on her, or just Me "using" her for My pleasure, I just have to say one word to force another orgasm out of  her..."More." She can usually reach down and bring another orgasm to the surface. Of course, then comes the sensitivity to her clit after cumming. That is ALWAYS fun to play with. I love it when she writhes around, trying to escape the sensation.  There are times when afterwards she can barely walk from fatigue and that "rubbery" leg feeling. I enjoy that element also. That is My abbreviated idea of "forced" orgasm play. So much fun. So many possibilities. Of course, this is just My opinion and not to be take as anything more than that. 

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 7:16:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		But sadly as soon as  the male sub is done, then so is the play, (or so at least from what i can gather on here lol)

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 7:41:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SilentHunter

But sadly as soon as  the male sub is done, then so is the play, (or so at least from what i can gather on here lol)


Not always, some of us are multi

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 8:08:08 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
I can only speak for myself when I say that for me to have an orgasm, I have to close my eyes and "open my filing cabinet".  If I don't do that, no matter how good something feels, battery powered or not, I just do not have an orgasm.  In days of yore, I have had an vibrator strapped to me for hours and just couldn't do it unless I closed my eyes and fantasized, even if the fantasy was about having a strategically placed vibrator strapped to me!!
Am I an anomaly or is there anyone else out there like this?

You are somewhat of an anomaly and there are many out like just like you- including me.  The "just let go and it will happen" method does not work for me- it takes focus.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_828167/mpage_1/key_orgasm/tm.htm#828533
Let's talk about orgasms

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problems reaching orgasm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_118872/mpage_1/key_faking/tm.htm#120062
Faking Orgasm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_125421/mpage_1/key_faking/tm.htm#125432
My Master can't make me orgasm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_672287/mpage_1/key_fake/tm.htm#672407
I'm sorry Master, but I can't cum


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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:03:33 AM   
moki1984


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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

I can only speak for myself when I say that for me to have an orgasm, I have to close my eyes and "open my filing cabinet".  If I don't do that, no matter how good something feels, battery powered or not, I just do not have an orgasm.  In days of yore, I have had an vibrator strapped to me for hours and just couldn't do it unless I closed my eyes and fantasized, even if the fantasy was about having a strategically placed vibrator strapped to me!!
Am I an anomaly or is there anyone else out there like this?


I am exactly the same way.....you could give me exactly what I want and unless I close my eyes and fantasize.....it will feel good, but I will not climax

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:10:53 AM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		When I started in BDSM if I had to speak it killed the orgasm building fully and I had to start over again.
In conditioning myself to having to ask to cum eventually asking didn't stop me from being able to.
I'd suggest repetitive opening of your eyes sometimes right before, sometimes during, and sometimes after you cum.
The more you train your response something is acceptable the sooner you'll be able to assimilate that training.
Good luck,
suzanne

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:20:40 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		"Forced "is some thing done against someones will.so I believe we are talking about orgasm denial until the DOM is ready for you to cum,Never in my life could I see anyone force to cum against their will..HOW could anyone be in the correct mind set while forced?NOW to teach to cum on command is a whole different story....AS always just this ol" masters views on this subject...bounty

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:22:41 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:24:13 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER
"Forced "is some thing done against someones will.so I believe we are talking about orgasm denial until the DOM is ready for you to cum,Never in my life could I see anyone force to cum against their will..HOW could anyone be in the correct mind set while forced?NOW to teach to cum on command is a whole different story....AS always just this ol" masters views on this subject...bounty

For me, once I orgasm, with the right pressure, I can be physically forced to keep orgasming.  In fact I have done so, with tears streaming down my face, begging to stop, muscles aching in my chest due to the pain.

The first orgasm needs to be cooperative, after that, not. 

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:29:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

"Forced "is some thing done against someones will.so I believe we are talking about orgasm denial until the DOM is ready for you to cum,Never in my life could I see anyone force to cum against their will..HOW could anyone be in the correct mind set while forced?NOW to teach to cum on command is a whole different story....AS always just this ol" masters views on this subject...bounty


BOUNTYHUNTER, i'm sure the OP wasn't referring to anything of the sort, but i just wanted to say that yes a person can be truly "forced" to orgasm, as in completely nonconsensual, against their will. it was done to me many times as an UM by my abuser...the shame it inevitably produced just fed his sadistic nature that much more.

but more than likely the OP was referring more to cumming on command or under a Master's full control.

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:42:32 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		YES Cummings on command or after a long time at play with orgasm denied.I have had one that was multi and after the first one shes was like a river on and on and on...Forced where you are demanded to do something that you don't want to do is some thing that baffles me,YES you can be forced to kneel, yes to can be forced to have sex however I just can't see the mind set of forced orgasms,A woman physic is fragile especially when her orgasm is concerned...as always just the humble opinion of this ol" master and subject to change...bounty

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 9:56:14 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER
YES Cummings on command or after a long time at play with orgasm denied.I have had one that was multi and after the first one shes was like a river on and on and on...Forced where you are demanded to do something that you don't want to do is some thing that baffles me,YES you can be forced to kneel, yes to can be forced to have sex however I just can't see the mind set of forced orgasms,A woman physic is fragile especially when her orgasm is concerned...as always just the humble opinion of this ol" master and subject to change...bounty

Have you heard of women having orgasms when raped?  They did not want them, were not at all in the mindset to have them, and felt very ashamed about it afterwards.  But their bodies still responded.

I can understand how it would be difficult to grasp and wrap around, but it certainly does exist.

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 10:29:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Speaking as a male, I can only dream about being "MULTI". I've read a lot of stories about being "Forced" to cum. There are even sites (with videos!!!!) that cater to that fantasy,  (which is what being multi is to most men...jealous,jealous,jealous). It's also a fantasy to be able to bring a woman to mutiple O's (sort of an ego thing I guess). I know that when I'm done, I get so sensitive, it's almost unbearable for the stimulation to go on (and on...more fantasies).

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RE: Question regarding forced orgasm.. - 3/8/2007 10:36:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Males can have multiple orgasms, though not necessarily multiple ejaculations..

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