NightWindWhisper
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Been there, done that. She was 36, he was 18. We all knew each other from the gym where we all weight lifted. I knew that he was hot for her, and she for him and so invited him over for dinner, then suggested a hot tub later. Well things progressed and we did a menage a trois. From what I could tell everyone involved had a great time. The only problem (he was a virgin so STI's didn't fit in as a problem) was that afterwards I eventually figured out that she cheated on my when I was in Lab classes at least once a week for the following year. So, the night was good, but the outcome poor.
I agree with daddysprop247's comments. I also believe that there is an element of jealousy that plays a very important part. Everyone looses the attraction for another over time, to a degree, and jealousy can be a strong factor in keeping a relationship together (though it can also be destructive, if uncontrolled). If she (or he) is attractive to another, the viewer starts to rethink about just how attractive their mate is. I believe that there is a primal component also, especially for women. Historically a woman who had a man "on the side," fared better when her guy got eaten by the Sabertooth Tiger, since man #2 has a vested interest in her. I believe that the impetus for women cheating is laregly based upon that.
Technically a man watching his woman being fucked is a Cuckold. In today's society however the term mostly relates to the male as a "victim," either controlled by the other man, or by his wife or lover. See cuckold-forum dot net to get an idea of the popularity. However the desire to share, or see one's partner with another without being controlled, or doing so in a very controlled manner is also a very common , though not often acted upon kink.
The real problem that I see is finding the right partner. Occasional, random, or short-term menage a troi's (or quartra's) bring increased STI (Sexually Transmitted Infections). There is alsothe factor that each must be compatible with two other people. If my partner was turned on by the idea I'd enjoy experimenting with another, or two guys in a "co-dom" position. Though what I'd really want then is to have all parties agree to maintain sexual relationships without "going outside the group," and they would have to be tested for common STI's. The problem here is that to test for HSV-2 (genital herpes) there needs to be a four month waiting period to assure that the person who is infected tests infective. I point out HSV-2 because it can easily be transmitted even with a condom on. This wait makes things very difficult though not impossible. Condoms do increase protection, but most people (at least guys) that like to watch this get off on the creampie (if you don't know what a creampie is do a search for creampie and ignore the recipes) and for that complete testing is necessary. Remember that HIV = death and the largest infection rates have occurred these past years in the heterosexual population. HIV testing has become the norm for both partners, as a matter of courtesy and respect. Though many places tell you that you must wait 4 months, in reality 2 months pick up most positives correctly, though not all. I recommend a two month HIV test followed by one at four months.
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