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TNDom46 -> RE: What exactly IS BDSM etc? (3/11/2007 10:10:37 AM)
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I don't often post on here, but on this one I can't resist. When we, as a group, "define ourselves", or try to narrow ourselves down to a "common denominator", aren't we going to be excluding part of "us"? What makes any group a large group is diversity within the group. To some in may be absolutely shocking to know that there are some people in the collar me world who have no desire for pain, giving or recieving. To others the idea of a cuckold relationship, a man wearing women's clothing, or a man/woman having sex with someone of the same sex, is revolting. According to many of the posts that I have read in here people who are just here for the kinky sex don't belong. Some would like to limit this site to only those who want a 24/7 power exchange.
It is beyond my comprehension how such an open minded group of people can somehow be so closed minded to others. When I say this I am referring to the BDSM group as a whole, not just to the collar me crowd and certainly not to any particular post in this thread. We need to be excepting of others, that's what we desire from those who judge us. Isn't it? I think one of the biggest downfalls of other minorities is division with in the group itself. By minorities I am not referring to race, I am simply referring to groups that are outside the majority.
I say welcome to all. I say here is a place where you will not be judged as some kind of pervert. I try to be just as accepting of your fetish, or your interpretation of the lifestyle as I hope you will be of mine.
I like the idea of the OP, it is a very thought provoking post (it had to be to get me to chime in), and one that should draw a lot of varied opinions. Mine is but one, but it is mine.
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