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Subs How often did You Materbate before being Collared? - 3/30/2005 3:34:48 PM   
knees2you


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Ok Submissives{Male, Female} how often did You Masterbate before You where Collared??
It is hard to not think about Masterbating before ever thinking of being Collared. It is HuMan nature.

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Man? Heard Her #1 son goes Bad playing cards with the devils hand!" Eddie Money~


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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 3/30/2005 3:38:23 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Hi Knees, I really didn't understand the second sentence in your post. But in response to your question, I masturbate usually once a day, sometimes more frequently, rarely do I skip a day. I began when I was about 11 and have continued since.

This is both before and after being Owned The Owner sees no reason to limit my happiness sexually and encourages me to enjoy it with myself and others, and would like me to become more easy and frequent to orgasm (it's a lot of work and focus right now and rarely happens unless I masturbate).

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 3/30/2005 4:49:20 PM   
bumblebee


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I usually do once a day but sometimes more. Sometimes several times a day actually if I'm in a particular mood. But then if I'm feeling stressed or not well I'll go a few days without.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 3/30/2005 11:17:02 PM   
Pet4Master


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Not collared yet, but also not masturbating at His request. For years I have been a daily girl, maybe more depending on mood. My previous marriage was sexless, so it was all there was -- luckily I enjoy it!!

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 4/1/2005 11:19:01 AM   
joecool


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Not that I'm collared, but it varies. I've done the daily thing, but usually I'm around once every week or two.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 4/3/2005 9:44:28 PM   
autumnMyste


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Before I was collared? I was supposed to stop? Is this a new rule from the TWUE SUBBIE handbook that I missed?

Cheers

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 4/4/2005 2:44:56 AM   
KarbonCopy


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Stop masturbating? Oops, I didnt get that memo.

But I do now have to ask permission from Mistress before Im allowed to please myself.

So the only difference is I have to ask first. Luckily enough, Mistress likes watching me please myself, and alot of the time, thats the one condition of being able to do it, is to make me do it in front of her.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/1/2005 1:50:20 PM   
BruceVain


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Masturbation is totally hot. I love seeing my slaves get themselves off. Sometimes her hand or vibe can be a girls best friend.

~Bruce~

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/1/2005 5:50:33 PM   
ginger21


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Everyday, twice a day minimum.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/1/2005 9:15:36 PM   
uncollaredcandy


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Personally I go through phases. Sometimes its a few times a day and sometimes maybe once every week or two.

Candy

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/2/2005 8:41:31 AM   
terah


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My Master is sexually healthy there was never a limit or requirement.IMHO masturbation restriction only works on men.

I had one dominant who was restrictive. Frankly It did nothing but deterioate any sexual connection to him, sorry it's all about pussy control. If you don't know how to make it work and how to make it think you're fucked men.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/2/2005 10:32:00 AM   
blondenough


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i completely agree that when i'm put in the position of restriction, it does exactly that to me also--deteriorates any sexual connection i might have with the Dominant. From what i've heard anyway, physiologically the more one gets the more one wants. And i'm ALWAYS ready anyway--to cut me off just makes me feel exremely frustrated--it does not leave me in a desperate, wanting state. As far as myself, my Master has not put me on a limitation in connection to Collaring. The only consideration about it that He does want to know about it and is often there if i do it--i just prefer it that way.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/2/2005 11:06:19 AM   
ruffnecksbabygir


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i've never been much of a masterbater but not doing it at all now since Master does not allow it.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/2/2005 11:09:03 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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I also think it's high time we killed the idea that masturbation and fantasies and sex toys are only for people who aren't getting good enough with someone else. Couldn't be farther from the truth.

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/2/2005 11:28:37 PM   
ravenna


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Right on, EmeraldSlave2! My owners are baffled (and me too) at the idea of totally restricting my masturbation or my orgasms. (But if that's what a girl's master wants to do, well, different strokes, right? My guys only own this girl, nobody else... ;-)

i think i must be masturbating and orgasming more now than ever before -- and that's a lot. (My mother told me once that i started practically at birth, and yes, i was a little shocked to hear my mama say that, but i believe it...) They like ordering me to do it, they like watching me do it, they like letting me do it alone when they're busy, they like that it keeps me hot and wet and sex-focused and ready for anything, they like keeping the machinery well oiled for instantaneous use, they just plain like it. (Okay, i like it too...) True, sometimes i am forbidden to beat off as part of a punishment, sometimes i get ordered to wait just to let the pressure build up or for a dramatic moment they've prepared, sometimes i have to ask permission to cum (sometimes not), sometimes i'm tied up in such a way that i just can't masturbate; but then sometimes i also get tied up so that it's all i can do and my first orgasm is the opening act in the evening's entertainment. They tell me they're a little puzzled that a slave owner wouldn't want his girl to keep her machinery well-lubed and humming for them -- but then i have to add that whatever floats her master's boat is what a slave girl needs to submit to, and if he wants to ration out and approve and witness her every orgasm personally, that's entirely his right. (i will remember to tell my owners thank you again tonight for being who they are and wanting what they want from me...)

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/6/2005 3:55:06 PM   
littleone35


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Well for me i was a once a day or more often kind of girl if the mood struck. Master is pretty good about letting me cum sometimes. Part of my training is learning self control so he will have me take myself right to the edge of cumming but i am not allowed to cum. I have to force myself to stp because i want to pleas he and if i cum without permissinr he would be displeased.

Thanks for posting this topic.

JL's K

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/7/2005 10:27:05 AM   
slavedesires


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no change ...He gives me that choice

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/9/2005 1:27:22 AM   
APhacetoSit


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how many times are there in "always?" is that once, or a bunch of times?

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/9/2005 6:46:55 AM   
BobcatsLilMinx


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I used to be a 2 or 3 time daily kind of girl... these days I don't really, unless I'm doing it for Master, because I enjoy kinky masturbation as much as kinky sex, and well, it just isn't as kinky by yourself..

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RE: Subs How often did You Materbate before being Colla... - 5/11/2005 8:06:13 PM   
Lepidoptera


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I used to masturbate every day. Once I was collared, usually only after we played (which is when I was told to).

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