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Yearning for Knowledge - 3/8/2007 11:51:31 PM

butchbear

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Hi All,
My search for knowledge has brought me here. I am a dominant person by nature but haven't fully developed my skills as a dom. In the past, I've played a bit with S/m and D/s with others I've been involved with and have always enjoyed it.
I've been with a woman for the last 2 1/2 years that aches to be used sexually and desires a Master to serve. Early on, we tried to incorporate a D/s component into our relationship but it didn't work. We are partnered and the sex is absolutely hot (fucking without D/s) but we haven't been able to get the D/s to work. Problem is, my old 'tricks' don't work anymore. She thinks I'm just not "in to it" as much as she is but that's untrue. I have a preoccupation with wanting to learn to do things the 'right way' be it etiquette, protocol, etc. and she mistakes this for disinterest. I know this sounds very juevenile but how does one become a good Dom or even a Master?
I welcome any advice . Thanks.

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RE: Yearning for Knowledge - 3/9/2007 9:26:23 AM

bardtothebone

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That's a question that gets asked by many people, Butch. If they made,
'Domming for Dummies', it would solve a lot of problems?? A true Dom
disposition comes from within, but there's always more to learn for those
willing to study. Hang out with other Doms in the forums - your lady could
be very happy with the outcome! :)

< Message edited by bardtothebone -- 3/9/2007 9:27:32 AM >

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