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another Pro-Domme Question - 3/30/2005 5:49:15 PM

thinkingblueeyes

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First off, i'm a bit nervous to ask this question simply because i don't want to offend anyone. So forgive me if my words upset Y/you in any way. Second, i'm sorry if it's already been answered in another post. Feel free to shoot me that way if possible.

i am sure many of us submissives shoot through the profiles of all the incredible Women on this site; and as we are reading we think more and more.....wow...She seems perfect. Then we realize She is a pro-domme and we know we are looking for more of a lifestyle-domme.
At this point we are left with a bit of a dilemma:
1.bug the lovely Woman who has done a wonderful job stating She is a Pro-Domme, telling Her how great we think She is and that we would simply like to have a little bit of Her greatness in our lives.
or
2. read how Her profile says She is a Pro-Domme and assume She is only looking for those who intend on offering some form of tribute for Her services.

i know i have held back from sending messages to many Women, simply because i didn't want to offend them.

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RE: another Pro-Domme Question - 3/30/2005 11:27:26 PM

BeachMystress

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Unless she has indicated that she is looking for personal subs, do not bother her to take you on -unless you are willing to pay. It doesn't matter how incredible you find the woman or how much of a match you think the two of you might be, unless she indicates otherwise, she is here for work, not personal subs. Only contact her if you're willing to pay her fee. Otherwise, you're wasting her time and yours. Bugging her for non pro stuff is not a way to show your appreciation for this woman. She most likely has hundreds of men bugging her and you'll be classed in with the wankers and the assholes. If you want to show your respect, leave her alone till she either changes her profile seeking personal subs or until you're willing to pay.

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