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Sinergy -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/10/2007 10:17:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Why do so many think sex is part of D/s?


I think DianeB269 has the UltraSecretInarticulateSubRant Decoder Ring.

Sinergy




Sinergy -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/10/2007 10:19:02 PM)

On a related note.

The whiney sub says "hurt me hurt me" or "fuck me fuck me"

The Dominant says "no."

Just me, yadda yadda yadda.

Sinergy




Shira -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/11/2007 1:06:52 AM)

Bdsm is whatever you want it to be. Sex or no sex. And how do you define the word "sex" anyway? Just because two people might not have intercourse doesn't mean they haven't had sex.
But I agree with the poster that lots of subs, of both sexes, have unrealistic expectations.




FelinePersuasion -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/11/2007 2:14:25 AM)

If you want to fuck that's great, I mean I don't mind that others do it to get rilled up, I just don't think every one who'll ever do it has the same motivation, hehe.

Now if you asked me about food and how animalistic being hungry and not having food made me, I'd admit I'd be willing to beg and pleade if ya had the food I wanted hehe.
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ORIGINAL: Stunning

Ok. I don't propose to doubt someone when they tell me they speak the truth. There's just something inside me pulls a Jedi, like, "Search your feelings, padawan!"




FelinePersuasion -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/11/2007 2:16:00 AM)

yeah, like the guys who think coming over parading naked and having me spank you while you pretend to dust is house cleaning lol.

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ORIGINAL: Shira

that lots of subs, of both sexes, have unrealistic expectations.




SweetSarijane -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/11/2007 7:03:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Stunning

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

Ok, I'll just tell a close dominant female friend of mine that she has to stop having sex with her slave, I'm sure that'll go over real well with her [sm=rolleyes.gif].

OMG no that is not real BDSM you will explode!


But, but, but he said sex wasn't allowed in a Mistress/male slave/sub dynamic!!!!! Oh what to do, what to do???? [8D]




MasterFireMaam -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/11/2007 4:05:36 PM)

For some people, this IS about kinky sex.

Honestly, you seem to have a reoccuring theme in your posts that negates any way but your way. That's hardly fair or tolerant.

Master Fire




Stunning -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/12/2007 2:42:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

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ORIGINAL: Stunning

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

Ok, I'll just tell a close dominant female friend of mine that she has to stop having sex with her slave, I'm sure that'll go over real well with her [sm=rolleyes.gif].

OMG no that is not real BDSM you will explode!


But, but, but he said sex wasn't allowed in a Mistress/male slave/sub dynamic!!!!! Oh what to do, what to do???? [8D]

Explode on him.




SweetSarijane -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/12/2007 5:21:18 PM)

Damn, now there's a thought!!! [8D]




thompsonx -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/16/2007 8:38:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: seekstofasn8adom
When you must get into your heads that being dominated means exactly this,no sex whatsoever.The quicker you all realise this the better,i realise this vital importance of bdsm,but not many of you other guys do which is a real shame in my opinion.
The shame is your ignorance, I'm sorry if that is too harsh, but really!   Who do you think you are to say what dominas want and will do with out submissives?  Every woman dominates as she wishes.   In my case, if there is no sex, he isn't my submissive, because I require it!  
Cuts to the front of the line...[;)]
thompson




FukinTroll -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/16/2007 8:44:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

The shame is your ignorance, I'm sorry if that is too harsh, but really!   Who do you think you are to say what dominas want and will do with out submissives?  Every woman dominates as she wishes.   In my case, if there is no sex, he isn't my submissive, because I require it!  

Of course these responses are probably the exact reason you began this thread; to get people to look at you, and state whether they do permit sex with their subs or not.  [sm=rolleyes.gif]  M



I think there needs be a new nomenclature. Fucking Troll seems to have lost its effect.




Jaded2005 -> RE: So many subs mainly men think that being dominated means that they will have full sex. (3/16/2007 8:56:24 AM)

Maybe I'm missing something..... As far as I was told, what happens between 2 consenting adults, is just that, 2 consenting adults. For someone to state what it is or what it isn't is B/S. BDSM is for 2 people to experience, not to be decided by someone else. 



I hate to advocate drugs, violence or insanity to anyone but they've always worked well for me......Dr. Hunter S. Thompson




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