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siamsa24 -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (4/24/2005 6:25:39 PM)

It really is all about sex for most that are interested. Most tend to make stammering excuses when I say that the fight will take place in a proper gym/dojo area in full uniform, LOL




SweetDommes -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (4/24/2005 6:34:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MsPurrmeow

So, this is about sex for you?

*eye roll* what a surprise.
[snip]
Purr



Personally, I don't think there is any need to be sarcastic about it. He's been pretty upfront about that, and well ... it is for me, so why not for him?




Spike1777 -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (4/24/2005 7:43:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: siamsa24

As promised, here are the pictures from my last fight:

Fight Pictures



cool pics, i guess that you study Judo??




siamsa24 -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (4/24/2005 7:46:48 PM)

You can guess that, but you would be wrong, LOL.
I have studied three different forms of martial arts, the pictures are of Brazilian ground fighting mixed with Kenpo ground fighting.




Spike1777 -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (4/24/2005 7:58:54 PM)

Wow, that is exciting. I used to study Tae Kwon Do years ago. Used to do turnaments and then went into referee(ing). Now I just do bagwork and forms for exercise. Keep up on the good work Brazilian ground fighting mixed with Kenpo ground fighting sounds exciting................

little spike




siamsa24 -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (4/24/2005 8:05:59 PM)

It is fun, the pictures are from a fight night that we have. A bunch of schools get together and we basically just beat the crap out of each other [:D]
It's a blast and a half




MsPurrmeow -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 1:19:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsPurrmeow

So, this is about sex for you?

*eye roll* what a surprise.
[snip]
Purr


Personally, I don't think there is any need to be sarcastic about it. He's been pretty upfront about that, and well ... it is for me, so why not for him?


Well, the sad part is that guys really talk about it being about Dominance and submission, when it rarely ever is. It's about them getting their dicks hard and getting off, not about submission for most. I hope to meet the few who can understand the difference.

Purr




iwillserveu -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 5:54:40 AM)

I can see several problems with this for her.

1) The opponent will lose on purpose. After about 5 years old we all want real competition not Daddy letting us win.

2) If she is into it are you worthy competitition? I can beat every single non-chess player out there, but why? If there is no risk of lose, why bother?

3) Stakes. We all know what you want. Should she be playing for the opposite? If she is playing for the right to not play with you, where is her motivation? She can do that now. If she wants anything else from you, you are going to just give it to her.

In the end this is for you, not her. That in itself is not bad. Look at the foot fetish guys - that ain't for her, she just puts up with it.

If she wants to wrestle you don't fool yourself it is for her. She is doing you a favor by acting out your fantasy.




iwillserveu -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 5:58:39 AM)

Siamsa24 is a good example. If you are not good why would she even be interested unless she was doing you a favor? (I assume you are not a trained Karate expert.)




iwillserveu -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 6:01:12 AM)

Note to self: If you piss Siasma off don't go to Cleveland.[:D]

Hey Siasma, you fight like a girl![&:]




iwillserveu -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 6:08:23 AM)

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsPurrmeow

So, this is about sex for you?

*eye roll* what a surprise.
[snip]
Purr


Personally, I don't think there is any need to be sarcastic about it. He's been pretty upfront about that, and well ... it is for me, so why not for him?


Well, the sad part is that guys really talk about it being about Dominance and submission, when it rarely ever is. It's about them getting their dicks hard and getting off, not about submission for most. I hope to meet the few who can understand the difference.



Of course it is about sex.

I can submit to my mother. I can give the key to my chastity device, I can clear her table, do the dishes, laudry, vaccuming, etc. Would I be in a DS relationship with my Mom? Yes some guys fetish that but for some reason they don't submit to their mothers.

Geez, Louise...




siamsa24 -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 7:31:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: iwillserveu

Note to self: If you piss Siasma off don't go to Cleveland.[:D]

Hey Siasma, you fight like a girl![&:]



I know [;)]

I get made fun of for fighting like a girl. I use "dirty tricks" that aren't really against the rules, but only because they didn't think it needed to be. I will pout, complain, moan (in a sexual nature of course), whatever it takes to distract the other person so I can sneak a good move in [:D]




SweetDommes -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 8:36:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MsPurrmeow


Well, the sad part is that guys really talk about it being about Dominance and submission, when it rarely ever is. It's about them getting their dicks hard and getting off, not about submission for most. I hope to meet the few who can understand the difference.

Purr



Just because this particular interest is something that is all about sex does NOT mean that they are not submissive ... simply that they have an interest. As they are looking for a partner, they should, by all means, try to find someone who shares that interest - if they are not happy, they should not be in a relationship, be it D/s or otherwise. If someone needed to crossdress on a weekly (or more often) basis, this would not be the place for them, no matter how submissive they are - but there are others Dominants who would love to have a relationship with them. Just because someone has a particular desire, that does not mean that he/she is not submissive.




iwillserveu -> RE: Winner take all!!!!! (5/1/2005 9:37:30 AM)

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I know

I get made fun of for fighting like a girl. I use "dirty tricks" that aren't really against the rules, but only because they didn't think it needed to be. I will pout, complain, moan (in a sexual nature of course), whatever it takes to distract the other person so I can sneak a good move in


Female chess players get accused of that often. You know, "she only won because I tok pity on her since she could not compete with the great male mind!" (translation: she kicked the great male minds ass and he is not big enough to just shrug it off.) I have never heard of a good player being distracted by her batting her eyelashes. No good fighter will ever be distracted by anything like sexual moaning. (That is not to say it won't work. That is to say it will work on guys whose butt you'd kick anyway, just you saved time.)




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