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CreativeDominant -> RE: fitting in ...... (3/10/2007 2:53:32 PM)
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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers
I read a thread this am about a sensual Dom, I thought yea I want one of those, I know I need a Dom , but most of them scare me with the tatics they use........ I need one that builds you up, makes me want to please him more...... just thought I would tell yall I finally feel like I fit in ....... [:D][:D][:D][:D]
You have to remember that Sensual means differing things to differing people...for some dominants and their submissives, it might mean the bite of the whip intermixed with the cooling stroke of the ice cube...for others it might be the sharpest edge of the knife drawn just so across the nipple and clit...for others, it might simply be the feel of their bodies entwined together in a hot, no holes-barred fuck...and for others it might be none of these things. Sensuality is referring to the senses and while it may have something to do with dominance, I tend to think of it as referring more to the play side than to the non-play side.
If you are referring to the play side, you are going to have to define for yourself...and for the dominant seeking your company...what sensual means to you. If you are referring to the non-play side and what you mean is Gentle and/or Patient rather than Harsh or Discipline-oriented, etc., etc., then you are going to have to make that clear.
I am very sensual...both on the gentle type and the harsh type of play. I mix it up. I don't know that sensual could be applied to my dominance outside the bedroom though gentle and firm and patient and willing to discipline all can be.
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