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Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 4:16:30 PM   
freelove1478


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Status: offline 		Are there any honest ones here?  Or is everyone here a fake ?


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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 4:20:08 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Of course there are. You have just had a run of bad luck.
 

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 4:29:40 PM   
KatyLied


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admitting to lying and fabricating things about themselves and their intentions
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We're here to learn, what'd they lie about?


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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 4:43:41 PM   
Quivver


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied
We're here to learn, what'd they lie about?


I second that!  What'd they lie about?????


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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 4:44:14 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Even if you throw out the people who are members of CM that don't post.....

There are dozens, perhaps a hundred or so members who write in to the message boards.

Doesn't it seem reasonable that out of all that, certainly there are one or two honest subs?

I won't name names, figuring it out is part of the fun.

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 4:55:31 PM   
freelove1478


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< Message edited by freelove1478 -- 3/10/2007 5:12:59 PM >

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 5:06:59 PM   
untamedshysub


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Status: offline 		well you did not know any of these people for very long to discuss moving in or relocating. Both are major decisions. Perhaps slowing down and getting to really know someone may be a better idea. Go to them and spend a weekend? there has to be a middle or you will get hurt every time. zero to 60 only works in cars.

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 5:08:24 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Wait, you talked about relocation without meeting (in real time) first?  Never mind, this stuff isn't worth discussing.

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 7:20:42 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		you're not a dominant, but you're looking for a submissive?

*way lost* are we supposed to be "easier" than vanilla women?

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 7:34:18 PM   
angelic


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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

you're not a dominant, but you're looking for a submissive?

*way lost* are we supposed to be "easier" than vanilla women?



~laughing~ of course we are supposed to be easier, why do you think there are so many 'wankers' here!  

< Message edited by angelic -- 3/10/2007 7:39:27 PM >

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 8:00:11 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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ORIGINAL: freelove1478

Are there any honest ones here?  Or is everyone here a fake ?


keep looking. i'm sure you'll run into a honest one who is fake or a fake one who is honest.

good luck


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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 8:07:50 PM   
ElectraGlide


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Status: offline 		I just made a Myspace blog entry tonight about online game players. I met a few from online but did not meet alot also lol. Dont expect nothing from online, just have fun being online.

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/10/2007 9:22:55 PM   
zindyslave


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Status: offline 		Of course there are honest people on here you just have to find them...also just wondering why are you asking?

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 12:30:15 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: freelove1478

Are there any honest ones here?  Or is everyone here a fake ?



Nope! Nobody real here! I'm completely fake. I'm made out of butterscotch candy!

PS. Have we reached the "Is everybody fake" threads quota for this month or will there be more?

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 12:31:42 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

admitting to lying and fabricating things about themselves and their intentions
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We're here to learn, what'd they lie about?



Oooo.... I wanna know what she said before she edited!!!

Also - it's a site that has personals hon! You get that stuff on the vanilla sites, you expect this to be magical?

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 5:46:22 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Each and every day on each and every BDSM or even vanilla dating site, there is at least one discussion about "fakes" on the internet.

What is fake?  Most often we hear people complain about "fake" when if examined more closely it is a situation of people not meeting each others expecatations or relationship criteria.  If i want to buy a car, it would not make all trucks "fake" or all bicycles just car wanna-be's it would just mean they don't match my needs.




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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 6:14:12 AM   
theGuideGoddess


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Status: offline 		I can only define words for myself, but for me fake is when someone presents that they are seeking x,y,z real life and you later learn that they were only seeking to have a little fun on line.
 
All ads here are posted by real people, but not all real people here are being honest in what they seek.  It is possible that they are either afraid of or don't know what they want.  But it would be nice if they were honest.
 
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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 6:33:49 AM   
smilezz


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<rolls my eyes> 

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 7:48:35 AM   
cagedpassion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: theGuideGoddess

I can only define words for myself, but for me fake is when someone presents that they are seeking x,y,z real life and you later learn that they were only seeking to have a little fun on line.
 


I met quite a few of these in my search, but then found the real thing who was right there all along.

passion

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RE: Honesty ...... - 3/11/2007 9:36:13 AM   
toservez


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Status: offline 		I read your profile and from what I read you are looking for that “natural” relationship and not a D/s relationship and I mean is you want a relationship similar to a D/s one but without the work. Not saying that is wrong at all but I would compare this to a couple looking for a third, nothing wrong with that either but people looking for something similar are going to be a very small minority here.

I am guessing you are getting a high percentage of “dishonest” people because your profile might not be read correctly by some and it is written quite nicely and also there are certainly a percentage of fakes because they might be the only ones to write you.

My advice would be to explain what you are wanting more specifically in terms of day to day living and not big picture stuff. Understand most women on here are wanting an actual D/s relationship or M/s relationship so be very upfront in what you are seeking to them so they can make a conscious choice right away.


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