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Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board?

Absolutely Yes

32% (8)

Absolutely No

24% (6)

I'm Unsure

4% (1)

I don't think it really matters

40% (10)

Total Votes : 25

(last vote on : 3/14/2007 8:14:03 AM)
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Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 10:45:11 AM

MistressNoName

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I have seen several discussions on the boards that have led me to believe that just as we have separate Ask a Master and Ask a Mistress boards, that the Ask a sub/slave board should also be divided into male and female camps to more specifically address issues which pertain to each gender. How say you all? Should the sub/slave board be divided and renamed: Ask a femsub/slave, Ask a malesub/slave?

Also, if you have strong reasons for your particular response, please post it.

Thank you for participating in the poll.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 10:51:51 AM

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I dont think it matters. If you read the forums, the only difference in any of the forums is who the initial question might be posed to. The answers come from anyone who cares to answer. Even if there was a second section added to address malesubs and femsubs, everyone from both sides of the coin would chime in anyhow. Just make sure you address your questions to the right groups an you'l get the answers you want.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 10:22:08 AM

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Nope. I feel the subs do well together. There is a seperation of Mistres and Masters to avoid cock fights.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 12:02:28 PM

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As my school reports said 'misst does not play well with others' so maybe there should be a ask male sub / ask female sub and a misst board too

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 12:16:14 PM

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If they want one they can go ask the collarme people for it. If they want it separate I say let them have it. But it doesn't appear that the subies are complaining too much.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 12:25:25 PM

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Ok, quick clarification to try to keep this thread on topic...the issue is not about separate boards b/c the boys and girls can't get along together - what an over-simplification that would be. The point is that just as there are differences between male dominants and female dominants and therefore differences in issues that relate to male and female dominance, so are there such differences between male submissives/slaves and female submissives/slaves. Can we try to stay on point, please?

MNN

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 12:49:53 PM

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There IS a difference between male and female subs (naturally) ...

But I don't think another board is needed for this reason:

Make subs are the lowest of the low in BDSM terms - on this message board as well - thus, I can not imagine their board getting much activity at all. The male subs tend to have no PARTICULAR interest in talking to each other, Doms tend not to want to talk to them, Dommes tend to already know what they know, and if they had a question they would be more likely to go to another Domme ... etc.

So, the board would quickly be in dis-use, and the male subs would continue to post on the other boards anyway.

Also, since male subs are so low, and SO plentiful, no who is not a male sub would wish to post to them on a message board lest it be considered 'encouraging' them.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 12:57:11 PM

TexasMaam

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YES YES YES YES YES YES YES.

Gosh amighty why won't CM put up one more board?

Let's let the submales have their own, it would save SO much of My time browsing the boards for submale questions/comments.

You have stumbled upon My Pet Peeve here at CM...

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 1:13:39 PM

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To the OP, as others have said, anyone answers anyway.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressNoName
Can we try to stay on point, please?

To this, I can only refer to my first point.

Ask the right question, get the right answers.

In closing, dolphins should never swim in tabasco sauce.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 2:33:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

There IS a difference between male and female subs (naturally) ...

But I don't think another board is needed for this reason:

Make subs are the lowest of the low in BDSM terms - on this message board as well - thus, I can not imagine their board getting much activity at all. The male subs tend to have no PARTICULAR interest in talking to each other, Doms tend not to want to talk to them, Dommes tend to already know what they know, and if they had a question they would be more likely to go to another Domme ... etc.

So, the board would quickly be in dis-use, and the male subs would continue to post on the other boards anyway.

Also, since male subs are so low, and SO plentiful, no who is not a male sub would wish to post to them on a message board lest it be considered 'encouraging' them.

fergus

Fascinating that these are just the reasons why I think we NEED a submale board. Lack of respect and understanding of the male sub and the issues which pertain to him and a lack of adequate supportive networks for malesubs.

interesting.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 2:44:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

Make subs are the lowest of the low in BDSM terms - on this message board as well - thus, I can not imagine their board getting much activity at all. The male subs tend to have no PARTICULAR interest in talking to each other, Doms tend not to want to talk to them, Dommes tend to already know what they know, and if they had a question they would be more likely to go to another Domme ... etc.

fergus

Ahh....so this explains why I'm on the lowest rung of the pecking order!
I guess one has to start somewhere! rofl

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 3:03:49 PM

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Personally, I don't think it matters because you will still have both genders answering questions on either board; just like you have both genders answering and asking questions on both the the mistress and master boards.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 5:43:27 PM

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I don't think it matters. We all cross post and cross answer anyway.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 5:51:49 PM

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Everyone posts where they want, so would it matter? If the boy subs want one, i say let them have it..... just be ready to have everyone on it.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 6:48:01 PM

sub4hire

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I don't think it matters at all. As everyone else already stated everyone answers everywhere already.
If you have mistress in your name I'm sure all male subs are already contacting you.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 7:03:18 PM

Zensee

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Sure! Of course then you have to add an Ask a Female Sub / Slave forum too and why not add an Ask a Pre-op Transgendered Rubber Maid Switch Who Loves Tight Bondage But Isn't Really Into A Lot Of Pain Pain forum too? (No offence intended to anyone fitting that description (this note added as a service for the humour impared))

We don't need more niches. One stop shopping please! I wish they would meld the Ask a Mistress and Ask a Master boards into one Ask a Dominant forum. So many of the issues cross over and both genders and all orientations post to both. If people want to ask a gender, kink, orientation or any sort of highly specific question put it in the thread title. Let's not be making forums for every kink subcategory. Forums are for sharing not encouraging exclusivity.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 8:10:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressNoName

I have seen several discussions on the boards that have led me to believe that just as we have separate Ask a Master and Ask a Mistress boards, that the Ask a sub/slave board should also be divided into male and female camps to more specifically address issues which pertain to each gender. How say you all? Should the sub/slave board be divided and renamed: Ask a femsub/slave, Ask a malesub/slave?

Also, if you have strong reasons for your particular response, please post it.

Thank you for participating in the poll.

MNN

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< Message edited by MistressDolly -- 3/11/2007 8:11:15 PM >

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 8:29:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressNoName

quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

There IS a difference between male and female subs (naturally) ...

But I don't think another board is needed for this reason:

Make subs are the lowest of the low in BDSM terms - on this message board as well - thus, I can not imagine their board getting much activity at all. The male subs tend to have no PARTICULAR interest in talking to each other, Doms tend not to want to talk to them, Dommes tend to already know what they know, and if they had a question they would be more likely to go to another Domme ... etc.

So, the board would quickly be in dis-use, and the male subs would continue to post on the other boards anyway.

Also, since male subs are so low, and SO plentiful, no who is not a male sub would wish to post to them on a message board lest it be considered 'encouraging' them.

fergus

Fascinating that these are just the reasons why I think we NEED a submale board. Lack of respect and understanding of the male sub and the issues which pertain to him and a lack of adequate supportive networks for malesubs.

interesting.

It's not so much that I am against the idea (I am not) just that I think it will be fairly inneffective.

fergus

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 9:34:43 PM

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I have always thought it odd that subs and slaves were lumped together as though our gender does not matter while dominant sorts got their own forums based on gender. I agree about splitting it up. Personally I do not related to femdom/ male sub threads for the most part. Sometimes I do, but mostly I do not. It is not imperitive that I relate to every thread that gets posted on that forum mind you, I am not that egocentric to think that, but sometimes I get the feeling that we avoid each other's threads anyways.

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RE: Should there be an Ask a malesub/slave board? - 3/11/2007 10:10:59 PM

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And one more clarification. Of course everyone cross-posts on all the boards...that's not the issue...However, when a sub (male or female) posts something on a Dom(me) board, the subject they're responding to usually pertains to something either specifically related to femdom or maledom...that's the point.

I guess people find it difficult to believe that there actually are male-sub specific issues worth discussing?

Hmm...interesting.

MNN

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