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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 7:47:08 AM   
vield


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Status: offline 		Since for many years women were taught to deny that erotica excited them, I am glad to see so much openly expressed interest in M/M action by women.
Of course men have often pushed or even forced their women to play with other women, and men have greatly enjoyed F/F erotica. Two women means twice as much femininity to enjoy in person or visually. I expect that the M/M play or porn turns on women similarly.
I have been expected to obey a dominant gay Master by pleasing men sensually, and I have been expected to please a Domme by interactions with other males. I do not get anything out of this myself other than the joy of doing as the dominant wishes, thus when I am in charge this M/M action is not going to occur.
However there is a couple who are both very dear to me, and any touch of one touches both. If these two ever decide to take things further it will be my joy to interact with either or both.

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 8:01:51 AM   
Unrepentant1


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Status: offline 		I could do this for the right person, but does she exist?

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 9:38:52 AM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		I am with you there, Bella.  Gay porn is great to watch, but for
in a real life situation I want them to both be bi so we can all
participate. 

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So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 9:48:58 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Hold it!  Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight. To me the word BI comes to mind. You cant be one and the other together.

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 10:10:04 AM   
curiouslyseeking


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quote:

Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight.


If you eat sushi, does that make you Japanese?

If you jump out of an airplane, does that make you a paratrooper?

In my opinion, a few experiences doesn't set one's course for life or preferences. 

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 1:11:43 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		We have beat this subject to death previously.  A slave/sub
will often perform same sex behaviors to please their Master
or Mistress.  The spectrum from totally hetero to totally homo
is a long one. 
 
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html
 
http://www.apa.org/topics/sbehaviorsub1.html

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
Hold it!  Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight. To me the word BI comes to mind. You cant be one and the other together.


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So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 1:42:13 PM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking

quote:

Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight.


If you eat sushi, does that make you Japanese?

If you jump out of an airplane, does that make you a paratrooper?

In my opinion, a few experiences doesn't set one's course for life or preferences. 



Curiosity is one thing.  But it only takes one time to find out, right?  Beyond that... if it smells like a dog, walks like a dog....

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 1:44:08 PM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Hold it!  Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight. To me the word BI comes to mind. You cant be one and the other together.


I agree. 

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 1:50:43 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Ummm...who cares?  If he likes to have a guy suck his dick, then he likes to have a guy suck his dick.  I didn't see the OP asking what you're supposed to call it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Hold it!  Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight. To me the word BI comes to mind. You cant be one and the other together.

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 2:22:34 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Ummm...who cares?  If he likes to have a guy suck his dick, then he likes to have a guy suck his dick.  I didn't see the OP asking what you're supposed to call it.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Hold it!  Someone explain to me how a man can get his dick sucked and still be straight. To me the word BI comes to mind. You cant be one and the other together.



I couldn't care less about the label some would attatch to it.   Obviously there are enough women who agree that it is a turn on.  Highly doubt the label, or the stigma matters at that particular point. 

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 2:40:06 PM   
MistressFeathers


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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 3:27:54 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Since we have posts about watching 2 women together, this begs the question -
"Who wants to watch their man with another man?"


If you are referring to play, I have watched him play a male bottom.  It was incredible to watch; the sadist comes out without any sexual undertones at all.  It is fearful, fascinating and exciting all at the same time.  Then to sit there and know that he is going to turn that sadism onto you next is quite nerve wracking.

As far as sexually, I do not think I would want to watch him with another man.  Mainly because he wouldn't enjoy it.  I tease him about it because one of my fantasies is to be in a threesome with two other men, with the men as sexually involved with each other as they are with me.  If he were to fulfill the fantasy with a threesome with him and another man and the only sexual contact for them was with me, I would be ecstatic.

I also have the desire to watch two men have sex and just be the voyeur.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 4:00:53 PM   
mp072004


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Status: offline 		I've watched my man with another man, and it was hot. Although I'm not quite so crazy about watching male-male sex as some women are, it can be appealing, and it was particularly nice when I was involved with the "players."

Monica

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 5:12:32 PM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 5:41:08 PM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		Just a quick interjection...so to speak...here. I note that several of the femdominants seem to find it hotter when one or both of the men is straight and "forced" to engage in male-on-male sex.

Not to hijack the thread but is there something different about some of the femdominant mindset about this than there is about the female submissive (and others') mindset when it comes to forcing straight females to engage in girl-on-girl sex? Seems to me that on the female on female thread, there were all kinds of protests against female on female sex and the fact that some male dominants enjoy it. As to "forced" straight female on female, there was much more uproar from many over that. I am asking...where is the difference that seems to result in less condemnation of male on male...even forced...here?

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 6:44:23 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

Just a quick interjection...so to speak...here. I note that several of the femdominants seem to find it hotter when one or both of the men is straight and "forced" to engage in male-on-male sex.

Not to hijack the thread but is there something different about some of the femdominant mindset about this than there is about the female submissive (and others') mindset when it comes to forcing straight females to engage in girl-on-girl sex? Seems to me that on the female on female thread, there were all kinds of protests against female on female sex and the fact that some male dominants enjoy it. As to "forced" straight female on female, there was much more uproar from many over that. I am asking...where is the difference that seems to result in less condemnation of male on male...even forced...here?


I wasn't part of the 'forced' f/f discussion, so I can only speak on this subject.  I think it was on another thread that, first of all, I don't like the term 'forced'.  I have always talked with those who might be interested in this type of encounter to get their reaction of it before just springing it on them and demanding that they obey.  This can be a hard limit for some, and therefore shouldn't be breeched.  In My own case personally, involving Myself in a f/f or fmf scenerio where the females interact sexually, I have no interest, desire, or curiosity it in.  To Me, there's no point in it for My own preference, and I am not a sub, so I'm not willing to do it to 'please' someone else.
 
As for those under Me, I only chose those who have potential interest in this area, as I know it is an activity that I will expect them to at least have some curiosity about participating in.  It's on My list of activities that I expect My next (at this time, I have no one wearing My collar) sub to agree with.  There are other things on the list, too.  I'm not saying this would make or break the deal, but I have a short number of items that I know I want in My next sub.  I won't list them here, but many of My other posts mention them at one point or another and I don't want this to become My personal advertisement trolling for My next one.
 
Sisters.... Have I missed anything?

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 6:54:45 PM   
Griswold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Since we have posts about watching 2 women together, this begs the question -
"Who wants to watch their man with another man?"


Ya know...if you want to talk about 2 or more (I'm good with "multiple") women...some occasionally covered in mud....at least two of them ripping one or the others shirt off....no bra of course, I'm okay with that....but seriously....why interupt my fantasy with the above kind of shit?

< Message edited by Griswold -- 3/12/2007 6:55:18 PM >

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 7:36:08 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		If you do not like it, then do not read the post.
As you can see, many people like this fantasy
and many have made it a reality.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold
Ya know...if you want to talk about 2 or more (I'm good with "multiple") women...some occasionally covered in mud....at least two of them ripping one or the others shirt off....no bra of course, I'm okay with that....but seriously....why interupt my fantasy with the above kind of shit?


_____________________________

"Beware, the woods at night, beware the lunar light.
So in this gray haze we'll be meating again, and on that
great day, I will tease you all the same."
"WOLF MOON", OCTOBER RUST, TYPE O NEGATIVE


http://KinkMeet.co.uk

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 7:39:38 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Sorry, I dont share.  My boys dont get to touch other boys... only I get to play with my toys.
No disrespect to those who do, just not my style.

DV

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RE: Who wants to watch their man with another man? - 3/12/2007 7:47:54 PM   
Mustardseed


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Status: offline 		My Daddy is bi and wants a boyfriend, so I'd really like to see him with another man -- either just socially as a couple or actually having sex.  I could play Lube Fairy!  

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