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Araven -> My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 1:42:15 PM)

I suppose maybe this should go in the positive experiances section, but I dont think i'de get all the proper thank-yous out to the all the wonderful Female Dominants whose advice and wisdom i've read in this forum. Normally I just lurk, with the occasional post from time to time.

So I decided to be brave, suck it up, and get out the community. I had gotten an invitation to a local(well, somewhat Local to me) TNG group and finally decided to give it a go. I've read here various times its the best way to learn more about the lifestyle and meet new people. And everybody was absolutely right. I had a wonderful experiance, met great new people. Nobody was mean or nasty, everybody was very respectful and very outgoing to help me feel welcome.

If anybody was on the edge like me, is very new and nervous, I'de really suggest trying to find some sort of local group to go experiance.  Its an entirely different thing to see somebody in the flesh, as opposed to over a computer screen. It really helps to know there are other real people out there with these interests.

I suppose the scary relization that I had after I was driving home, more than anything was: "I think I'de really like to do these things after seeing them." And I'm very eager to go to the next meeting in a month.

But most of all, I just wanted to thank everybody here, in this little online community for helping me with kind advice, words, and wisdom for my first steps into a real-life community. [:)]




frostyslave -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 2:21:28 PM)

But did you get laid?




MadamesezSTFU -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 2:43:46 PM)

Hey, frosty, you want to tell us who you are???See you don't have a profile on the other side.  Very convenient.  I have been lurking for a bit on the boards, and almost didn't post on the boards, being a new poster and not wanting to sound obnoxious.  I felt it only right from one newbie that doesn't want to be obnoxious to tell one that is being so, welcome to the boards. 




thetammyjo -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 3:44:13 PM)

Good first steps, Araven!

Well done!

Now keep it up and start making buddies.




MadamesezSTFU -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 4:12:52 PM)

Since I couldn't add and edit, I am so happy for you Araven, and I hope you are lucky enough over time to find what you seek.[;)]




MasterFireMaam -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 6:22:49 PM)

Congratulations! See? We don't bite...unless you ask nicely. ;-)

Master Fire




LadyHugs -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 6:31:59 PM)

Dear Araven, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I am most pleased that your experiences were positive and inviting.  This, in my mind's eyes is the way it should be for one and all.
 
It will always be a very personal experience and a journey.  Welcome to your first steps.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs




coyotie69 -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 9:30:09 PM)

Hello this is the coyoite69 it is been a few days for me being on this site I hope to meet the person that is ment for me She is out there just where




MadamesezSTFU -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 10:45:04 PM)

You might have more luck if you post in the Introduce Yourself column, coyote:  you might have more luck there, smiles.




LadyPact -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/11/2007 10:51:16 PM)

Glad to see one who is posting of a positive experience of a male sub getting out into the communtity.  We'd like to see more like you.




BeachMystress -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/12/2007 4:41:14 AM)

Congrats! Good for you! That took courage. I hope you find friendship, knowledge and when the time is right, the perfect Dominant. Welcome to the scene!




Lorelei115 -> RE: My First Time in the Community (3/12/2007 9:16:02 AM)

I congratulate you on your courage! Its never easy to take that step from the computer screen to real people. I hope you will have many many happy experiences in the community ahead of you!




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