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slaveanwyl -> Birthday (Masters) (4/1/2005 2:41:30 PM)

Masters Sirs;
How can an owned slave in a 24/7 TPE lifestyle ask Master for an allowance to buy a suprise present.

slave is not allowed to lye to Master , he controls the money her salary goes into his bank, and yet she desires to buy him a present , slave tried asking for some money but Master then says why slave? help ? his birthday is next week..

slave anwyl




Atavist -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/1/2005 2:47:20 PM)

Why not make something for him - a drawing, a poem, a card, or a great dinner. Wear something you know he loves. There are many ways to give a gift and the best ones don't require money.




domtimothy46176 -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/1/2005 4:14:15 PM)

Greetings, anwyl and good to see you here. My best wishes to LG.
As to your question, I would suggest simple honesty. Ask for a set amount and tell him it's your desire to mark his birthday with a gift. It may not be a surprise that you're getting him a gift but the gift itself may still be a pleasant surprise.
Be well,
Timothy




Overlord218 -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/1/2005 7:21:40 PM)

Well put Timothy.

Of course, you could always wrap a nice pink ribbon around yourself and 2 or 3 of his favorite whips and wake him in the nicest possible way. [;)]

Sorry, being facetious here. Birthdays do that to Me. [:D]




EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/1/2005 10:08:37 PM)

Why cant you just tell him its for his birthday? If he wants such micro control over money then it would make sense that you need to tell him the purchase.

I understand the desire to surprise, but obviously this is one area he doesn't want to be surprised in.




MasterzKitten -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/2/2005 5:56:20 AM)

(i know this ia an Ask a Master thing, but here's my 2 cents anywho)

As the others had said, you could tell Him its for His birthday, or make Him something with things you already have. This always worked for me when i didnt have any money to spend to get my Master anything. Hope its helpful
examples:
-Cooking His favorite food/dinner (when i did this i used one of my spare rooms and lit up as many candles as possible, had roses & rose petals everywhere, good dishes and music we both like. your Master may not be that kind of romantic, so you could always have a different theme to the room in something He does like)
-dressing yourself up in things you know His loves you in
or
-just put a bow on your head and smile (that usually works lol)
-doing little extra things around the house (cleaning up, little decorations, etc) w/o being told to
-give Him a back or full body massage after He returns from work
-write Him something sweet (a poem, letter, or just a quick little note) and leave it somewhere He'll be sure to find it. in His wallet, along with His work things, left in a pocket, etc. He'll find it later in the day and it'll make Him smile

This is all i can think of offhand, i hope something works for you.

Best of luck!




RexLongBeach -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/2/2005 12:44:58 PM)

One suggestion not made so far is to write an erotic story for him. This is something different than a little note, or poem. Make sure you incorporate any fantasies he has, and let him, through your words, truly feel the depth of his ownership of you. If you DO want to go with the short note, don't write it to him - write it to his cock. :)

Another freebie: do something for him you've never done before (it's ok that he hasn't asked for it). I'm talking about belly dancing for him, or turning your dwelling into a Gorean Tavern and being a paga slave, etc. It doesn't have to be perfect. It has to be sincere. Think about it from HIS perspective - what would he want that he doesn't yet know he wants?

Asking for money and disclosing the purpose is also fine - he's set up the rules, he has to live by them.

Many Doms aren't that big on B-Days. Make it so B-Days are big days to yours.

Best,
Rex




terah -> RE: Birthday (Masters) (4/2/2005 4:18:06 PM)

Well you can come out and ask if you would have funds to plan for his birthday without saying what it will be used forso you can ensure his enjoyment for that day. Or you can make something special for him. Or you can just let him alone to his ill gotten plan to hold the purse string and not buy him a damn thing.

just my 2 cents

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