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ErictheRed12662 -> Question... (4/2/2005 1:52:21 AM)
Do you find that male subs are more rare than female? I'm just curious, because I'm finding it hard to find other male subs really, and I hear people say all the time that it is more likely for a male to be dominant than submissive. Also, are there any Mistresses in Dallas that are on here? I'd love to chat with one... blushes

onceburned -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 3:30:10 AM)
quote: I'm finding it hard to find other male subs really My goodness, where are you looking? Male subs are a dime a dozen! I have noticed that they are underrepresented in forums such as this - I am not sure why. It may be related to how our culture prizes dominance in men, viewing it as natural and the ideal goal. By contrast, a submissive man would be considered 'unnatural' and something to be mocked. (shrug) I dunno... Western culture still has some growing to do. Oh BTW, a quick search of the profiles shows that five dommes between the age of 18 to 25 live in Dallas Texas and have visited Collarme in the past month. You might want to look at their profiles, and then do some reading such as So you want to meet a Domme? and 10 steps to making a good first impression Good luck! [:)]

SweetDommes -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 8:32:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onceburned I have noticed that they are underrepresented in forums such as this - I am not sure why. It may be related to how our culture prizes dominance in men, viewing it as natural and the ideal goal. By contrast, a submissive man would be considered 'unnatural' and something to be mocked. (shrug) I dunno... Western culture still has some growing to do. I think this is exactly it. I post regularly on Literotica.com's message forum, and used to post on b.com's forum ... and all three are the same. Tons and tons of male subs signed up, but almost none post. However, Eric, rest assured that there are 1000s of sub males out there ... most of them are just lurking (which, for the record, isn't a good way to impress a Domme - I'd much rather chat with someone who posts things that I can go to and if they are a doormat, idiot, or asshole).

ErictheRed12662 -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 10:39:31 AM)
I was looking for male subs to ask them questions. ^^

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 11:05:27 AM)
Read the forums, you'll find several (wulfman, SubEric, Sting, Mantis65, etc... Read above for "Onceburned" as I think many here would agree Chris is a great example of a sub and a gentleman. M

onceburned -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 12:45:09 PM)
quote: I was looking for male subs to ask them questions. ^^ You might want to post your questions in the "Ask a Submissive/Slave" forum but.... hey, ask away! I think you will find that we are not shy about sharing our opinions [:D] And as M mentioned, there are some very 'with it' male subs here. She honored me to include them in their company, but I am sure you will find answers to your questions. Don't be shy... we have all probably wondered about the same things you are now. And chances are good that someone tomorrow or next week will be wondering the same thing - even if they are too shy to ask. Of course, for deeply personal issues you might prefer to keep your questions private. And you are welcome to send a private message to me (which can be done at the bottom of my profile, or anyone's profile for that matter) But remember, with private email you only get one person's opinion and posting a public question allows you to benefit from the experiences of many people. [:)]

KarbonCopy -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 1:34:58 PM)
I'm a male sub, you can ask me anythign and I'll answer if I can.

SweetDommes -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 2:02:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onceburned quote: I was looking for male subs to ask them questions. ^^ You might want to post your questions in the "Ask a Submissive/Slave" forum but.... hey, ask away! I think you will find that we are not shy about sharing our opinions [:D] hmm... that's kinda what I was thinking too ...

LadyAngelika -> RE: Question... (4/2/2005 5:21:51 PM)
quote: I was looking for male subs to ask them questions. ^^ Then perhaps go to Ask a Sub rather then Ask a Mistress? Just a thought... - LA <edited because I realised that someone already said this - seems so logical huh?>

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