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sexual desire within chaste cuckold - 3/13/2007 8:22:43 AM

toservez

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I was talking to my Master yesterday and cuckolding came up for some reason. While we both got much of the dynamic we both were left wondering about a specific thing and whether it is a chicken or egg thing and sorry if this is stereotyping so please set me straight.

Our question is cuckolds who part of the life includes significant periods without sex to maybe being completely chastised, do you have a lower sex drive/need then average or the going without sex the drive has no bearing on that aspect if it is in your life and/or your sex drive being overpowered by the power exchange of the relationship takes care of that drive in a substitute way?

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RE: sexual desire within chaste cuckold - 3/13/2007 8:33:56 AM

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IME I can agree with the significant periods without sex- I think cuckolds like to justify it and sexualize the "dry spells" and it becomes an actual turn on to be teased.

I don't think it has anything to do with a lower sex drive, although it can be a way to process having a sexual dysfunction or lack of ability. By coming out about not being useful sexually, they can enjoy the objectification/humiliation/teasing all without actually having to perform.

These aren't universals however, plenty of people into being teased or cuckolded are very sexually able and voracious without dry spells.

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RE: sexual desire within chaste cuckold - 4/27/2008 2:49:34 PM

Subbil

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I would have to agree that in most cases chastity cuckolds are not due to a lower sex drive. I believe there are a lot more sexual experiences going on when someone is denied a release for long periods. The sexual pleasure of release is replaced with long periods of sexual frustration. So while the release is denied, the sexual experience is extended. Or so I believe

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