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RE: slave,s and hitting - 3/14/2007 5:35:55 PM

Celeste43

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She's not getting her pain needs met nor have you set up a system where she can request play. If she can't ever ask for it and have a fair chance of receiving it, and if you don't initiate it enough to satisfy her then you have left her with no alternative except misbehavior in order to get her needs met.

One of the first things he ever said was don't act out, ask for a spanking. If he can oblige he does, and if he can't do it immediately he will remember and do it when he can. So I get what I need and he gets a happy sub who is not resentful or frustrated.

Change the system you have in place because it isn't working for both of you. Talk to each other about what might work better.

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RE: slave,s and hitting - 3/15/2007 7:44:02 PM

andreaC

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I like to be hit by Master because it turns me on. Sure its hurts at times, but part of me loves it

I dont need to ask for it, like Master says, my mouth will often get me into trouble.

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