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LadyHugs -> RE: What the crap!!!!! (3/14/2007 9:19:38 PM)
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Dear MasterLJ, Ladies and Gentlemen;
In my mind's eyes I see, the bedroom is limited and also based on 'sex' and not the basis of anything that moves from the physical into the mental and spiritual realms.
Swingers have their protocols and kinky swingers as the seemingly appear to be based on your side of the story. But, the 'line' that crosses over from Swinging into BDSM and or D/s and or M/s relationships can be most blurred at time, especially if one side only sees the kinky swinging sex.
As far as stealing your wife away, several have made wonderful 'logic' explainations as to perhaps 'why' this happened. The heart of the concern though for me, is the other's 'spirit of intent.' Sadism and masochism isn't always understood, to which some refuse to look beyond the 'blinders' like horse's wear when in harness and pulling a load. They seemingly, by your accounts are hauling a load of cow pies.
What is more important -- is your relationship. All outsiders, to include me, are not important. Advice can be given but, its really the couple and their relationship that is important. Everybody practices some form or another. Although contrary to your measure of what would be tolerant would not be to others, so it is the same with 'them.'
I do understand the posed question by LotusSong. Sometimes people using terms or conversation with ease to those who aren't as 'involved' and or 'educated,' may have taken something your slave said serious instead of figuratively. Sometimes it pays dividends to what how things are said or, explain things as to take the 'surprise, shock and awe' out of the experience.
Just some thoughts.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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