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subsnow -> RE: Need Clarification on "Scene" and "Play" (3/15/2007 3:09:07 PM)

For me a scene is a form of play that is more intense. When J and i are sceneing, i am silent and i keep my eyes down. He does with me as He pleases and i do as He says. It usually involves toys and tools like a blindfold, earplugs, the crop, the ball gag, etc.In a scene i am just taking in the sensations. It isn't scripted per se, it's just more intense and serious.

When W/we are playing WITHOUT sceneing, i tend to be very talkative, flirty, and fun. W/we joke around and tease each other. He still does what He wants with me but i might resist a little before following orders. i get playful spankings. There is a lot of tickling and smiling and laughing. It's wild, spontaneous, and fun. 




goodpet -> RE: Need Clarification on "Scene" and "Play" (3/15/2007 5:32:11 PM)

If you go to a play, and they have Scene one, scene two.. does that mean is it a kinky event then?




obey1 -> RE: Need Clarification on "Scene" and "Play" (3/15/2007 11:36:46 PM)

Ok, I'll bite too..

Scene reminds me of a play, as in Shakespearean.  Act I, Scene I. etc.  If you watched the Academy Awards for example this last time, there were awards for best adaptation of a screenplay, and best interpretation, etc.  The screenplay was read, and then the actual movie was played out.  Scene conjures up in my mind a definite idea of some type of altogether fantasy, such as playing out a rape, a police arrest, doctor, nurse, some form of "out of the body" experience where you are definitely disconnecting at some level to your vanilla life and becoming someone or something else for a moment.  A Scene has a beginning and an end.  A Scene has an objective, to make her come, or to deny her the pleasure of coming, etc.  A Scene most always involves props, such as costumes, or a conveniently 'unlocked' door, a package and clipboard, etc.

Play is defnitely a much broader term.  Several scenes together can equal a night of play.  There might be costume changes, water breaks, bathroom breaks, etc.  Inside the scene there may be some entertainment that makes it playful.  People can play inside a scene.  Play does not necessarily need any props.  A finger in her pussy and a hand over her mouth might be all that is needed.  Play definitely has more communication involved since play designates something more light-hearted than a scene where there are certain expectations or objectives.  You can play all the time, even with a greedy cell phone call in the middle of the day, etc.  heh heh.  Play seems to me as more of a two way street where the sub can be more 'playful' rather than obedient and slave-like.  That's just my opinion.

The last thought I have is that OBscene can be used to help distinguish between the two.  This gives reference to a public viewing.  Two people having sex in a parking lot bent over a car can be obscene if it is viewed by someone else, filmed, distributed, whatever.  Playboy used to be termed obscene because not only was it on public newstands to purchase, but it also heralded the joys of being a 'Playboy man' which was obscene because it went against the normal 'scene' of the 50's household.  So since 'scene' is a homonym for 'seen', it is more of a standard, a memory, an event for posterity, as it were.

The antonym then of Scene is Obscene.
The antonym of Play is Work......

Now I'm confused!  LOL.




AZSweetie -> RE: Need Clarification on "Scene" and "Play" (3/16/2007 1:40:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

AZSweetie,

That is why I don't do floggers, everyone loves them and I have to do all the work. 


Yeah but then it's like practice for You to Master what You've already Mastered..LOL! It'll keep you skilled and others saying " Man, He's sooo the shit!" LOL! [:D]




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