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spankoramanyc -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/15/2007 2:43:58 PM)
Seekshertrue1 I think you have the nail right on the head. And what a sad comment that is. I have run into this issue many times in my experience with the lifestyle. From part time lovers to non available doms I have learned the hard way that people are not always what they seem. I had no idea this phemomenon occured until I was given first hand experience. My heart still carries the bruises from those that felt that I was good enough to play with but not attend a film or restaurant with. The result of this knowlede is my eternal "singleness". I find that I would rather be alone than with one that doesn't cherish me, in every venue. Perhaps one day we'll find each other. There are days when that possiblity seems only a pipe dream. spank

veronicaboundcd -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/15/2007 3:00:59 PM)
I agree 100% with BeachMystress on this one. Knowing a Domme has the physical ability to do what they want with you, takes the play to a different level. However there is something to be said for submitting to a much smaller woman as well ... it just puts my mind in a different headspace entirely. I don't prefer one over the other ...it's just a matter of being two different types of experiences for me. I've subbed to many Dommes, of all shapes and sizes, and each experience was unique, however the quality of the play was a result of the Domme herself, not Her ability to fit into a Size 6 dress !!! .........Yours, Veronica

NorthsideBill -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/15/2007 3:01:41 PM)
As a rule I have always preferred BBW's as both partners and friends for some reason. It may have to do with the fact that I am 6'8" tall and weigh in the neighborhood of 450 and would crush a smaller woman like Godzilla going through Tokyo. Even thinking about it now, its simply a preference and I have no real reason for it...interesting

SirKenin -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/15/2007 4:53:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Is there a cut-off for the size of a BBW? When is a bbw not a bbw. A BBW is any woman who can not face reality. Labels are only for those attempting to undermine their own insecurities or justify their own superiority complex. Now, a "Plus" size I believe is any size 14 or over. Obese is anyone who has a BMI over 35 or so. Personally I like women with a BMI between 20 and 25.

seekshertrue1 -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/15/2007 5:45:47 PM)
Its still nice to know that there are the male subs that do prefer the plus size/BBW/volupuous Domme/Mistress/Goddess both vanilla and the lifestyle. I personally don't like little men.

justinedoll -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/16/2007 2:52:06 AM)
Bdsm contact seems to me be more based on character, but look can cause some emotions. For me plus size woman naturally awakes needing od beind dominated by her, especially if she is older. I had it many times in my life, older plus size woman, just enslaved psychically with her look. But important was what she had in her eyes, and eyes are the mirror of soul

o2beyoursub -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/16/2007 7:14:20 AM)
I reading the responses to the post, I realize that it wasn't as clear as it should have been. It doesn't help that it zapped the original post at first and was in hurry to re-enter it. I did not mean to imply that I don't find plus size women attractive. While from a purely aesthetic view I might prefer slimmer looks (just someone may prefer brunettes to redheads); there is more to attraction then aesthetics. Most of the women I've dated are plus size and I'm certainly not embarrassed to be seen with one (as someone suggested). What I was getting at is that there is something about the Rubenesque or voluptious figure that appeals to my submissive desire and that I find powerful. While I am not new to BDSM, I have not really discussed the subject with many people and not on a discussion board like this one. I was curious about the views of other posters on the subject. I am sorry if I offened anyone and should add that I did not mean imply that I only wanted answers from other submissive males.

hereyesruponyou -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/16/2007 10:23:55 AM)
Immediate attraction can't always be defined and shouldn't be thought of as good or bad anyhow. I am not immediately attracted to most men. I've never been a "watch the guy go by" kinda girl. I have been immediately attracted to someone by their intellect. It is exciting to be able to literally push someone around or be pushed around by someone. I have been told that a session was awesome because i have the physical strength to push someone harder. It's also a safety factor for some men. My partner feels extra comfortable that i can also catch him if he falls as it were.

velvetears -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (3/16/2007 10:48:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirKenin A BBW is any woman who can not face reality. Whose reality?

SkinnySlave -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/14/2007 1:13:04 PM)
Respect is earned, regardless of size. There is something immediate about the physical respect a large lady commands. I know many ladies who crave the same contrast in men. The feeling of power and control. By the way, those sensual curves are always a bonus!

KYsissy -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/14/2007 1:36:32 PM)
I have ALWAYS preferred voluptuous women. I guess I looked at too many Rubens as a kid.

Griswold -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/14/2007 2:00:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KYsissy I have ALWAYS preferred voluptuous women. I guess I looked at too many Rubens as a kid. As generous as you appear...few would know what a Rubens is.... (Unless of course, they looked it up...and then handed down their opinion).

BBBTBW -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/14/2007 2:21:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirKenin quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Is there a cut-off for the size of a BBW? When is a bbw not a bbw. A BBW is any woman who can not face reality. Labels are only for those attempting to undermine their own insecurities or justify their own superiority complex. Now, a "Plus" size I believe is any size 14 or over. Obese is anyone who has a BMI over 35 or so. Personally I like women with a BMI between 20 and 25. Here is to not facing reality. Secure as the day is long. Not Superior to anyone except those that choose to look at me in that manner. Why is 14 or over + size? Who determined that? Plus to what? Why isn't it just a size? The term "Plus Size is also a label. But maybe you don't pay attention to women's clothing.

sting516 -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/14/2007 3:17:43 PM)
for me, i enjoy a woman with a little extra meat on her bones...but not to the extreme...as a general rule, i find a woman attractive up to about 200 lbs...beyond that, it would depend on how the woman carries the weight...some can pull it off, some can't

Griswold -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/14/2007 3:20:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: o2beyoursub For the submissive males out there: Do you, like me, find it more intensive to have a plus size woman to dominate you? While in many wasy I find slimmer (not super-skinny) women more attractive from an aspect of pure looks, in the context of BDSM, I prefer someone with a Rubenseque build. Maybe it is because of the dommes I've been with mave been plus size, or maybe there is just something more powerful about them. (didn't realize that I zapped the post. Sorry) For you submissive male OP's....do you prefer fishing?

BBBTBW -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/16/2007 7:45:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sting516 for me, i enjoy a woman with a little extra meat on her bones...but not to the extreme...as a general rule, i find a woman attractive up to about 200 lbs...beyond that, it would depend on how the woman carries the weight...some can pull it off, some can't How tall is she at 200 lbs....height makes the difference

KevinS -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/16/2007 7:57:20 AM)
Just wanted to chime in to say that it warms the cockles of my heart to see that no matter what BDSM board it is - alt, bondage, collarme, local discussions - that people still go nuts over a "fat chicks" thread. I bet if someone did some kind of meta-search, "i love/hate BBW" would fall in #2 just slightly below "true master/slave" topics.

MiladyAngelique -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/16/2007 8:51:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking quote: Is there a cut-off for the size of a BBW? When is a bbw not a bbw. I prefer the term "voluptuous" [:D] I prefer reubenesque myself or curvaceous

haysup -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/16/2007 9:25:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique quote: ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking quote: Is there a cut-off for the size of a BBW? When is a bbw not a bbw. I prefer the term "voluptuous" [:D] I prefer reubenesque myself or curvaceous "Zaftig" is also nice- it sounds like some kind of delicious pickled plum [:)] It is less about size than about face for me. There are many beautiful women of different sizes but I can forget everything if I'm looking into a captivating pair of eyes in a handsome strong-featured face.

Lucylastic -> RE: Prefer subbing to plus size Women? (4/16/2007 11:58:17 AM)
Being on the large/BBW/fat/obese/thick/whatever you wanna term it/ side, all my life, Ive come to terms with the fact that I will never look how I feel inside, but who I am inside IS what matters, and that shows thru to anyone with the intelligence/desire to see it. My desires, needs, cravings,and fantasies didnt wither away as I went up in dress sizes....and I dont intend letting anyones opinion of my weight affect that. And I prefer the term "Physically Prosperous"

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