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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 1:38:49 PM

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Someone had to say it..........
It's not the size, but how well you use it !!!!!

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 2:05:57 PM

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In F2m strapon play, size does matter. <smiling> And in my book bigger is better!!!

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Someone had to say it..........
It's not the size, but how well you use it !!!!!

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 2:59:42 PM

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18 inches is big

That would pierce someone's heart.
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Aww Ross, I was joking...unless you look at the monstor dildo movies.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 3:37:43 PM

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I have a variety of dildos and honestly, what a guy takes depends on his experience.

I'm very happy with the Tantus Silk series...I have them in small, medium, and large. They are smooth and a good way to introduce someone to anal play.
I have a couple of dildos that I like to play with (on my self) that if someone went from anal virgin to taking those toys, I'd be impressed.

Of course, the ones that would really impress are these:
Great American Challenge - http://www.sediva.com/10007.html (It also comes in a vibrator)
The Fist - http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-fist_12.html
Really any of these: http://www.extremerestraints.com/dildos-and-insertables_180/huge-dildos_186/

And despite the risks that were previously posted, while you certainly take those risks in taking larger and larger toys, if you go slow and let your body acclimate, you will find that the sphincter has amazing elasticity. My collared boy worked his way up, one toy at a time. He would purchase a new toy when he was visiting in person, and we would name it. Then I would tell him - 10 minutes with X dildo, 10 minutes with Y dildo, etc. And as he got each new toy he would simply try it and when it got painful, pull back just a bit then sit and let his body relax around hit. He was eventually able to take my fist, and he has no problems with his anal health. Patience is the key.

~Ms. Elorin

Mmmmmmmmm now they look like fun!

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 3:40:19 PM

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In F2m strapon play, size does matter. <smiling> And in my book bigger is better!!!

Diane

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Someone had to say it..........
It's not the size, but how well you use it !!!!!

Having seen your pics and video clips, I have to say you mean what you say and truely love your work too! Not sure about the spikes on the harness, behind that 10 inch black monster though, lol.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 5:10:01 PM

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Having seen your pics and video clips, I have to say you mean what you say and truely love your work too! Not sure about the spikes on the harness, behind that 10 inch black monster though, lol.

I can't find my spiked harness. I'm so sad....

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 5:19:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Unrepentant1

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In F2m strapon play, size does matter. <smiling> And in my book bigger is better!!!

Diane

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ORIGINAL: veronicaboundcd

Someone had to say it..........
It's not the size, but how well you use it !!!!!

Having seen your pics and video clips, I have to say you mean what you say and truely love your work too! Not sure about the spikes on the harness, behind that 10 inch black monster though, lol.

The spikes are there to let you know you've taken all 10".

Diane

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 7:18:05 AM

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Well, leave it to Me to point out the obvious.

Forcing 18 inch dongs three inches or more in diameter up a fellow's bum does 3 things to a man:
Either renders him speechless for a bit, or cause him to howl out loud. Not a bad thing.

Risks tearing the epithelial lining of his colon causing septicemia or risks injury to the prostate.

Leaves his sphincter so stretched that he will habitually leave skidmarks on his underwear, since he'll be too stretched to hold his own feces effectively.

My response to which is generally 'ewwwwwwwwwwwwww!'.

Ergo, 9 inches, 2 1/4 in diameter should really be enough, 10 inches same diameter is getting rather large, and 11 inches 2 1/2 in diameter is the most I'll ever use.

If that's not enough, a fellow will have to find a much nastier SomeOne than I am to play with: I refuse toilet duty and skidmark laundry duty.

I prefer finesse and a squeaky clean bottom at all times. And when I rip off or cut off a man's boxers, briefs, thong or jock cup, the damn thing had better be clean. Wet with precum, yes, but otherwise, squeaky clean.

I just took a sub shopping for anal toys this week and found the Aneros ?? sp??, an intriguigingly tortuous device, less than five inches long and a half an inch in diameter. Even the whore butt puppies at the fetish store cringed as I picked it out. We certianly saw a great many fire hydrant sized anal dongs but I believe I'll pass in favor of the Aneros. Finesse. All about finesse.

Thanks ever so for the post.

TexasMaam

my thoughts, worries, etc, exactly! 11" x 2 1/2" in diameter does sound huge to me. but with work, who knows, could possibly be something i could take, gently at first, but possibly work up to the with wild abandon as well...

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 12:19:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: Unrepentant1

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

In F2m strapon play, size does matter. <smiling> And in my book bigger is better!!!

Diane

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ORIGINAL: veronicaboundcd

Someone had to say it..........
It's not the size, but how well you use it !!!!!

Having seen your pics and video clips, I have to say you mean what you say and truely love your work too! Not sure about the spikes on the harness, behind that 10 inch black monster though, lol.

The spikes are there to let you know you've taken all 10".

Diane

I see, I never thought of that! I guess I shall have to find out what thats like then!

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 12:35:33 PM

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Now I own the dildo refered to as "The Fist" and frankly I prefer My own over it even though My hand is larger than the mold used for it. I can only assume its because where My hand is flexable and because it takes time to correctly and safely fist, it on the other hand is not so there is less control over it.

I agree with you though that size does depend on the prior experience and frequency of the male.

Im curious though. Has anyone else used a swimming noodle? Cut of course down to a length that makes it easier to handle during penitration? Well lubed of course and slowly. I also use on My male that I fist tennis balls that have been made into a strand of 3 anal beads. Mind you it took almost 3 years to get to that point.

MsPatty

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 12:47:01 PM

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The toy called "the fist," in my opinon is not the best idea. first off, I am just of the old school belief that if you're gonna fist someone, use your own fist...second, you need to put fingers in first and let the momentum within the anal cavity draw the hand in and form the fist...you don't just go in fist first. That's unsafe for the fistee and not wise on the part of the fister...

I just don't get "The Fist."

As for strap-on size, length is not the real challenge...girth is...the wider it is the more challenging and subsequently, more pleasurable, it'll be.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 1:07:05 PM

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I agree with you on that one. When I first got it and attempted to use it. Frankly within 5 minutes I knew it just wasn't going to work correctly nor safely. The male that had bought it for Me was obviously a bit too eager. I admit though I have an entire drawer of anal toys that for one reason or another just isn't used either because of the shape or size.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 3:29:04 PM

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Personally, I'm happy with any size that one would take for Me..... Just happen to love the view.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 3:43:58 PM

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Personally, I'm happy with any size that one would take for Me..... Just happen to love the view.

W/we should chat a bit more then m'Lady *ws*

Your toys or should i bring mine *wink*

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 7:46:29 PM

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The toy called "the fist," in my opinon is not the best idea. first off, I am just of the old school belief that if you're gonna fist someone, use your own fist...second, you need to put fingers in first and let the momentum within the anal cavity draw the hand in and form the fist...you don't just go in fist first. That's unsafe for the fistee and not wise on the part of the fister...

I just don't get "The Fist."

I always thought the point was a toy for a boy who can take that size to masturbate with when there is ~not~ anyone to fist him. Or for a girl, for that matter, who can relax to the point that she can take the fist without needing the duckbill. I've known several.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 7:52:28 PM

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Personally, I'm happy with any size that one would take for Me..... Just happen to love the view.

I also love the view.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/19/2007 7:58:44 PM

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The toy called "the fist," in my opinon is not the best idea. first off, I am just of the old school belief that if you're gonna fist someone, use your own fist...second, you need to put fingers in first and let the momentum within the anal cavity draw the hand in and form the fist...you don't just go in fist first. That's unsafe for the fistee and not wise on the part of the fister...

I just don't get "The Fist."

I always thought the point was a toy for a boy who can take that size to masturbate with when there is ~not~ anyone to fist him. Or for a girl, for that matter, who can relax to the point that she can take the fist without needing the duckbill. I've known several.

~E

Better to use butt plugs and size up gradually when going about it solo. And even for those who can already have taken a fist, rule of thumb (no pun intended) is to start fingers first. Better to be safe than sorry.

MNN

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/20/2007 1:01:42 PM

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Personally, I'm happy with any size that one would take for Me..... Just happen to love the view.

I also love the view.

especially when your using your large toys with spiked harness no doubt, lol.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/20/2007 2:39:33 PM

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Personally, I'm happy with any size that one would take for Me..... Just happen to love the view.

I also love the view.

especially when your using your large toys with spiked harness no doubt, lol.

Look at my new pics, the look on Rich's face says it all.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/20/2007 3:06:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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Personally, I'm happy with any size that one would take for Me..... Just happen to love the view.

I also love the view.

especially when your using your large toys with spiked harness no doubt, lol.

Look at my new pics, the look on Rich's face says it all.