hisannabelle
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Joined: 12/3/2006 From: Tallahassee, FL, USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: chrissyslave Just let me observe what your profile indicates: 180 lbs at 5'3" and suffer from a host of physical and mental problems, and no photos. No further comment is required. chrissy i'll be happy to send you photos if you're curious :) i took them down (after having them displayed off and on for quite some time) due to the nature of my dominant's work and the fact that i'd rather protect his privacy. also because i get far fewer "kneel bitch" emails without photos, and far more based on who i am as a person, rather than my physical appearance. physical and mental problems: fibromyalgia, spondylolisthesis (and arthritis and disk degeneration due to the spondylo), cerebral palsy (mild), post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety. oh, and migraines. what does any of that have to do with my weight or my physical appearance? wait...let me think...nothing! :) the main reason i list it is some people do not want partners who have a history of ptsd, etc. as well as many people advertise that they are looking for partners who are able to do strenuous physical stuff, etc. well, i can dance my ass off, i can yoga til the cows come home, i swim, i walk a few miles a day, usually, i elliptical, i do a hell of a lot of other stuff, but i'm not likely to go rock climbing, running, or sailing anytime soon. fyi, the weight gain was mainly due to starting and stopping medication around the time of my parents' deaths, as well as the stress that ensued around that time. i haven't been able to lose it, regardless of how little i eat or how much i exercise, mainly because an eating disorder that lasted several years has destroyed my metabolism, and compounded with stress, it becomes very difficult. i've become happier with myself, so now i don't obsess about losing it anymore. as my nutritionist said, "you're eating fine already, you can't eat any less, you can't exercise any more, guess you better start liking it here." people's profiles indicate a lot of things. yours, for example, indicates that you have an inferiority complex. i don't run around making veiled (or not so veiled) snide remarks to you about it, though. the op's could have indicated everything from he was cheating to he was a pastor, but the majority of people reserved judgment until he clarified what he meant by discreet.
< Message edited by hisannabelle -- 3/17/2007 1:54:11 AM >
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