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OwnedbyShayne -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/28/2009 11:43:02 PM)

I love when my Daddy is a combination of both.While we are having playtime He'll  be VERY strict with me, but then give me a very sweet kiss...or pet my hair (which He loves to do). So a combination of strict and gentle is what I love. I love how my Daddy and I can be talking about anything and He'd be giving me pets and kisses...and the next minute He'll tell me its time to play, He'll put me in my place and I love how He does it with such love and authority. I love how one minute I can be my Daddy's gorgeous princess to being His filthy slut.




janiebelle -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/29/2009 4:35:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rhembein

Perfection, to me... is a combination of loving and firm. It should be so much a part of Him that He doesn't even notice the difference. It should take such a slight change in voice or a certain look with His eye that will immediately put me in my place.


The most powerful man I know is just like that.
The touch on the reins was so light, it was barely, if at all, noticeable to those outside of us.  But that just made it all the more beautiful.
j




maia09 -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/29/2009 12:24:02 PM)

i like a combination as long as it's all genuine.




lizi -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/29/2009 4:28:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: maia09

i like a combination as long as it's all genuine.


Excellent point. If it's something a D type is doing out of striving to be something he is not then it's not really Dominance and I can't really respond to it. This has happened. It has to come from the heart or personality in whatever form it takes, sterness, gentleness, attentiveness, etc.
However the Dominance shows up in the man as far as the type of trait isn't important, the important part is that it shows up and is a genuine offering on his part.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/29/2009 9:43:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: janiebelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rhembein

Perfection, to me... is a combination of loving and firm. It should be so much a part of Him that He doesn't even notice the difference. It should take such a slight change in voice or a certain look with His eye that will immediately put me in my place.


The most powerful man I know is just like that.
The touch on the reins was so light, it was barely, if at all, noticeable to those outside of us.  But that just made it all the more beautiful.
j



Thank you janiebelle.  When I read that, it just made me shiver.  That's how Sir is too, with our ponyplay.  Just perfect.




janiebelle -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/30/2009 5:25:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

quote:

ORIGINAL: janiebelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rhembein

Perfection, to me... is a combination of loving and firm. It should be so much a part of Him that He doesn't even notice the difference. It should take such a slight change in voice or a certain look with His eye that will immediately put me in my place.


The most powerful man I know is just like that.
The touch on the reins was so light, it was barely, if at all, noticeable to those outside of us.  But that just made it all the more beautiful.
j



Thank you janiebelle.  When I read that, it just made me shiver.  That's how Sir is too, with our ponyplay.  Just perfect.


<smiles>
I hadn't even thought about the "reins" terminology.  But in that spirit...
"Cowboy up".  [;)]
j




Rhembein -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/30/2009 9:53:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: janiebelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rhembein

Perfection, to me... is a combination of loving and firm. It should be so much a part of Him that He doesn't even notice the difference. It should take such a slight change in voice or a certain look with His eye that will immediately put me in my place.


The most powerful man I know is just like that.
The touch on the reins was so light, it was barely, if at all, noticeable to those outside of us.  But that just made it all the more beautiful.
j



He's in charge without any effort. Beautiful is very appropriate.




MMagic -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/30/2009 1:49:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SmackNMe

Who likes a stern, strict mistress?  or is it playful and quietly spoken for you?


I like all of that.  My only problem is trying not to smile when Sir is being stern.  For now he's unable to see me most of the time, but dear God I'll be in so much trouble when he can...and THAT makes me smile too.




alphamaleslil1 -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (6/30/2009 3:33:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MMagic


I like all of that.  My only problem is trying not to smile when Sir is being stern.  For now he's unable to see me most of the time, but dear God I'll be in so much trouble when he can...and THAT makes me smile too.




I swear, if you don't get out of my head! LOL!

A combo, definitely!





justme1980 -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (7/6/2009 9:26:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SmackNMe

Who likes a stern, strict mistress?  or is it playful and quietly spoken for you?


I want them to be stern when it is time to be stern and soft when it is time to be soft




peppermint -> RE: Stern and strict or combo? (7/6/2009 10:09:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SmackNMe

Who likes a stern, strict mistress?  or is it playful and quietly spoken for you?


What's wrong with human?




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