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Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 8:21:19 AM

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hey all.

is it just me...[from gay perspeactive] why is it- that dangerous men can be so very alluring???

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 8:32:29 AM

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I always had a thing for the "bad boys" I think in my case because they appear so tough and I always wanted the protection of a man...I dated a guy who was in a gang when I was in highschool--he wasn't all that tough- he cried when i slapped him once cause i hurt his feelings

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 8:38:16 AM

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I always had a thing for the "bad boys" I think in my case because they appear so tough and I always wanted the protection of a man...I dated a guy who was in a gang when I was in highschool--he wasn't all that tough- he cried when i slapped him once cause i hurt his feelings

he did not hit you back???

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 8:42:11 AM

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Could be just an extension of the fact that we gay men aren't following what the general population finds "acceptable." And it could be that a dangerous looking man have that mystique of sexiness that we want and find very very attractive!

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 8:43:25 AM

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I don't think he hit me back because there were enough of my friends standing around lol....he was in a so-called "gang"..I just call it a bunch of stoners hanging together

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:26:31 AM

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because people want excitement... u want a nice guy for a friend, not a lover

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:26:51 AM

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I don't think he hit me back because there were enough of my friends standing around lol....he was in a so-called "gang"..I just call it a bunch of stoners hanging together

ok- so in private- do u think he would have hit you???

too many witnesses----

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:28:57 AM

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Could be just an extension of the fact that we gay men aren't following what the general population finds "acceptable." And it could be that a dangerous looking man have that mystique of sexiness that we want and find very very attractive!

hmm- if someone says roger dont do that- then i expect to know WHY. otehrwise- i do so just becos.

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:38:26 AM

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That's true, though quite often we are drawn towards the qualities in other people that we don't have or we wish we had ourselves! And it could be also we want to be as dangerous as the men who are considered dangerous just to have that "edge" and excietment!

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:39:54 AM

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Danger is my middle name....Domi "Danger" guy. Chicks and gay guys dig the 'bad boy" ....It's the allure of being on "the edge." Can't speak for the queers but the chicks like the idea of saving someone or the challenge of the "change."....It is impossible to renovate someone...But thank God there are those dopes still out there who are willing to give it a go. Save me from myself!

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:44:37 AM

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Danger is my middle name....Domi "Danger" guy. Chicks and gay guys dig the 'bad boy" ....It's the allure of being on "the edge." Can't speak for the queers but the chicks like the idea of saving someone or the challenge of the "change."....It is impossible to renovate someone...But thank God there are those dopes still out there who are willing to give it a go. Save me from myself!

interesting. yup- i learned long ago,- dont try to change a man. it dont work. if their momma raised em XYZ- then thats the deal XYZ, not AAA.

listen up ladies- changing a man is nearly impossible. :-)

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:45:04 AM

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I never found the dangerous types all that sexy. I always prefered an intresting "nice guy" who was adventerous enough to do things we wanted to try, but not stupid enough to try and involve me in something dangerous. The ones that are all puffed up and showy are usualy just that... all for show.

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:46:19 AM

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That's true, though quite often we are drawn towards the qualities in other people that we don't have or we wish we had ourselves! And it could be also we want to be as dangerous as the men who are considered dangerous just to have that "edge" and excietment!

the adrenalin flow. ya. makes sense. but as i get older i want security- not a carnival. tho- it is fun to visit the carnival- i just dont want to LIVE there.

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:46:48 AM

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Dangerious men define authority (mostly by their own defination). Which is the same reason why people in uniforms and buisness owners are also found sexy as hell.

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:47:35 AM

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I have never met anyone who claimed to be a bad ass who really was, but then I am still pretty young and have not had a lot of life experience

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 9:50:00 AM

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They actually did a woman's cycle study that showed women who are ovulating are looking for the bad guy volatile personalities & the rest of the month are more attracted to geeks.
I think the more bad ass you see someone being the more healthy and virle your impulses say they are.
It's their testosterone working as pheremoans (sp?).
Basically it's the beastiality in us picking the most dominant partners for procreative purposes over the span of humankind that's just still part of our underlying attractants.
I think it's also a case of the king of the jungle going belly up for only you and showing their more tender parts underneith knowing they are powerful enough they could be dangerous, but restrain that for you is an ego boosting experience for sure.

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 10:06:42 AM

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I have never met anyone who claimed to be a bad ass who really was, but then I am still pretty young and have not had a lot of life experience.
Those who can do and those who can't just run their mouth.
thompson

i have found guys who are very verbose- huge egos- stories- are usualy full of BS- have small penises, and try to componsate that way. now the quiet geak- that no one noticed- is gettting laid left and right......

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 11:59:28 AM

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Yet there the ones who are a bit arrogant and they also have a confidence which may seem to border on egotism but in reality the opposite

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 12:11:23 PM

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true cuffs, it is sorta puzzling why so many men worry their penis is too small. as tho that is the ONLY way of delivering pleasure.

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RE: Y R dAngerous men so daRn SeXY ??? - 3/16/2007 12:18:26 PM

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The only thing I can figure is the men who are obsessed about their penis size really don't have a good understanding on how to fully pleasure another. For some reason, they believe pleasure is about sticking it in the nearest hole and thrust until orgasm and never learned how to use their hands or lips on the various other errogenous areas on the body.

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