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obis -> RE: All slaves/subs.....Do Doms constanly ignore your profile preferences? (3/17/2007 4:54:04 PM)
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It's true of any social site on the internet -- women get tons of unsolicited email, period. There's no way to stop that.
I do agree with slaveish, though -- it's like a job ad. It is a list of ideal requirements, but I know very, very few people in life who are in a job or a relationship where they fit the ideal requirements. What happens in reality is that people meet and hit it off and the good qualities outweigh the bad, or they realize that what they viewed as negative qualities were really just associated with some bad person in the past who had those qualities.
Obviously if someone is a lesbian dominant looking for sub females and some dominant male keeps hitting on her, that's just obnoxious. But if someone says they only want to hear from doms in a certain age range and you're 2 years older or younger, I don't see any particular rudeness in introducing yourself, so long as you're willing to accept that they might still disqualify you solely on that basis.
All that said, every slave I've had seems to go through waves of email. When joining, you can easily expect a young girl with a photo to get hundreds of messages from people who pay no attention to the profile, which will taper off in a week or two. Then I'd say they get a couple dozen a week, of which 80% give no indication they've read the profile. There will be weeks of total silence, and then random weeks with 200 messages.
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