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ineedotk -> RE: Forced Feminization (3/18/2007 11:06:04 PM)
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The more general idea behind this thread shows up here periodically. That idea is if a sub desires something, anything, is that something being "forced" onto him? In reality, if we don't want to do something, we won't. And if we don't want a certain thing done to us, we won't allow it. Unless, of course, there is a perceived equal exchange taking place. A sub will do an unwanted thing or allow something unwanted done to him if he believes he will get a desired thing in return. Otherwise he wouldn't participate. Likewise, a Domme will "reward" a sub if he accepts an undesired act from her. This type situation always leads back to two questions: 1) Is the sub really submitting?, and 2) Just exactly which one of the two (Domme/sub) is truley in control?
A: 1) If a sub either really likes what he is "submitting" to, or dislikes what he is submitting to but believes he will get a more desirable thing in exchange for the undesirable, then no real submission occurred, only an equal exchange.
A: 2) If both the Domme and the sub are getting what they want out of the D/s relationship, then reguardless of who it is that appears to be "in charge" at face value, you still have equal exchange occurring - each is getting what he or she ultimately wants. It's no different than if you went to the store to buy a loaf of bread - you got your bread and the store owner got his money. Done deal, equal exchange, everyone's happy.
I always say, you only have true control and submission in slavery, the illegal kind.
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