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Commonality - 3/18/2007 6:44:45 PM   
SimplyTrue


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Status: offline 		Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?
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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 6:50:58 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		i submit because i enjoy fulfilling his desires. i don't expect him to provide me any pleasure above and beyond that, as that's the main focus of the relationship for me, although he often does.

i'm not quite sure what you're asking.

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 6:59:34 PM   
sub4hire


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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:07:30 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		I am his slave because I put his desires and needs before my own. That is where I gain my pleasure and how I see my submission.

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:10:10 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Filling his desires does fill my own desires.

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:17:32 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?

Neither
I see it as an inherent part of myself

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:22:56 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue
Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?
Nice questions, and lovely answers from the fem subs...  Now if we could only have the submissive men's replies.    M

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:23:18 PM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		I like to please.  But it has to be within ~my~ parameters for anything long lasting.
If that energy exchange isnt right eventually my needs will over weigh the want to please. 
It's a balancing act .... 


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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:25:35 PM   
wyldsubmissive


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Status: offline 		Its not so much -wishing- for him/her to fulfill my desires; rather the fact that they do. Its a symbiotic relationship. Give and take.

My personal view. I've never understood people who serve for someone other then themselves. I mean serving only that person.

Am I making sense?

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 7:26:02 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?


I see it as wishing to fill both of our desires at the same time

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 8:31:17 PM   
LaMspeach


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?


When Master allows me to fulfill his desires, he fulfills my desires. Since my only desire is to please him.

< Message edited by LaMspeach -- 3/18/2007 8:33:02 PM >

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 8:45:35 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue
Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?

No for the second.

I think we all want to be in relationships which are fulfilling for us.  It should be a mutual fulfillment.  If either is lacking, the relationship will be unbalanced and problems will arise.

It's not anyone elses responsibility to FULFILL me, but it is their responsibility to work towards the relationship they have agreed to be in which will allow for mutual fulfillment (as do you).

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RE: Commonality - 3/18/2007 8:52:45 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?
What do you see the act of submission as?.......Tempting

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RE: Commonality - 3/19/2007 8:40:22 AM   
lonlyrossInNeed


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Status: offline 		i sumbit becouse it is who i am i hope i understood this ??

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RE: Commonality - 3/19/2007 9:34:27 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		His, it fulfills my desires by making him happy. 

Matt's littleone

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RE: Commonality - 3/19/2007 1:40:29 PM   
jauntyone


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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

Who sees the act of submission as (1) fulfilling your mates desires, (2) wishing for HIM to fulfill yours?

hello simplytrue
 
while i know that many others approach things differently, for myself, submission is not an act of anything for me. It is a part of my personality that is always present. It is not only in Master's presence that i must always be pleasing and obedient; but even more so in his absence.
 
by adhering to that which is a part of me; i am in turn fulfilling that which makes me happiest

melissa

edited to add my name 

< Message edited by jauntyone -- 3/19/2007 1:41:05 PM >

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RE: Commonality - 3/19/2007 3:25:00 PM   
raevnn


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Status: offline 		It's about him; I'm satiated if I've pleased him.

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