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What's Up? - 3/18/2007 7:06:51 PM   
SimplyTrue


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Status: offline 		It seems to me that Doms are aggressive.  Are there any not-so-agressive Doms out there?  Are there any "masculine, masters of pleasure" out there?  It would be so nice to find someone to give and receive pleasure from ... no score board, just lust and love.

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RE: What's Up? - 3/18/2007 7:12:08 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Certainly there are.  What you are probably encountering, sad to say, are either desperate or, as you seem to have only just created a profile here, smelling 'fresh meat'.

Patience and good sense will help out a lot.

Good luck.

Jeff

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RE: What's Up? - 3/18/2007 7:20:09 PM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		Your semi new, at least here in the message boards.....
Be patient, what you seek is out there.... you'll learn to beat off the frogs in the mean time.....

Best of Luck!


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RE: What's Up? - 3/18/2007 7:21:02 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Yes, there are. Be patient...it might take a while.

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RE: What's Up? - 3/18/2007 7:37:28 PM   
curiouslyseeking


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

It seems to me that Doms are aggressive.  Are there any not-so-agressive Doms out there?  Are there any "masculine, masters of pleasure" out there?  It would be so nice to find someone to give and receive pleasure from ... no score board, just lust and love.


Yes, there are...as everyone else says, be patient. 
 
I've encountered many of these "masculine Masters of pleasure"...not my personal prefernce..but they exist.
 
I wish you much success on what you seek.


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RE: What's Up? - 3/18/2007 7:57:02 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Yes but he's taken!

He's the most civil and courtly man I have ever met. Protective of those he loves.

He is strong and sometimes bullheaded but he isn't aggressive, he just always knows what he wants. However he will always, and I mean always, listen to my concerns before he makes a decision. He may not make the decision I think would be right but he always tries to understand where I'm coming from.


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RE: What's Up? - 3/18/2007 8:55:02 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue
It seems to me that Doms are aggressive. 

LOL you obviously haven't met enough slaves- don't get their hackles up.

quote:

 Are there any not-so-agressive Doms out there?  Are there any "masculine, masters of pleasure" out there?  It would be so nice to find someone to give and receive pleasure from ... no score board, just lust and love.

Sure, look beyond the stereotypes.  If you can imagine it, it exists.

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RE: What's Up? - 3/19/2007 4:40:27 AM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		Its a simple equation...

The more agressive you are when you flood a new submissives' mailbox with messages = the more dominant you can appear to be in your depeserate pursuit of sex.

The irony of it is the dominants that are the most well respected in communitys are the ones I have found to be the least aggressive.

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RE: What's Up? - 3/19/2007 7:10:16 AM   
SirDominic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

It seems to me that Doms are aggressive. Are there any not-so-agressive Doms out there? Are there any "masculine, masters of pleasure" out there? It would be so nice to find someone to give and receive pleasure from ... no score board, just lust and love.


Your question is rather vague, actually. From your profile, it isn't an issue of over aggressive Doms, rather you are interested in a very mild version of D/s that would barely qualify as such. As you say, lust and love. That's a partner with great technique in bed, it really has nothing to do with BDSM. You also state in your profile that you aren't looking to be a submissive, except on a part time basis.

For example, I am not aggressive to an extreme, but I am most certainly Dominant. I'm comfortable in my skin, confident in my domination. Exquisite sex is definitely a part of my relationship with my slave. But there is a complete power exchange. I'm Dominant, she is submissive.

There is nothing wrong with what you are seeking, if that is what you are looking for, by all means take your time to find it. I'm not sure, however, that this is the right site to achieve that goal.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

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RE: What's Up? - 3/19/2007 7:34:05 AM   
Phoenix2raven


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Status: offline 		I dated a submissive a few years ago that was just like you. She called herself a bedroom submissive. There is nothing wrong with being that. It may take you a long time to find what you are looking for and you will have to deal with the "desperate" Doms who flood sites like this one. You may consider having a profile is a waste of time. Dont Give UP as others have said if you can imagine it its out there. Good luck and welcome to the boards.

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RE: What's Up? - 3/19/2007 8:23:02 AM   
lonlyrossInNeed


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Status: offline 		i agree with when someone sayd they think you are fresh meat or they are just dsprate

ross.g

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