Focus50 -> RE: Deception (4/7/2005 4:48:43 AM)
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You may be new to the lifestyle but your profile says you're almost 40, so you're not new to life! You probably don't need to hear the adage about a fool and his money etc but someone your age should know it nonetheless. We often tell the ladies, esp newbie submissives, to trust their instincts about strangers for their own safety. It doesn't come up nearly as often for male Doms but your experience shows anyone's fair game to all manner of predator, IF YOU ALLOW IT. I doubt if those who operate the site can help much as anyone can join from anywhere but you can ask. As for handles; I looked when I first joined and unlike some other sites, you (or she) can't change your handle here. It's like Alt, you can only open a new account.... I think you should just chalk it up to experience and keep your money firmly in your pocket in future. And there's always the grapevine to spread the word once you've made some acquaintances.... It may be a new lifestyle to you but people are basically the same everywhere - there's the good, the bad, the ugly.... etcetera. Focus50.
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