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curiousgirl72 -> HELP!! (3/19/2007 2:42:21 PM)

If any subs out that can point me in the right direction  as to where i need to start to explore this lifestyle i would appreciate it.  im not sure what to do and where is a good place to start. any advice will be appreciated.  thanks




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: HELP!! (3/19/2007 2:44:26 PM)

Don't make a commitment to anyone for at least 6 months.

Pull yourself together, this isn't an emergency.  If you were a mature stable capable responsible adult before, there's no reason to forget all that now.


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Hush5416 -> RE: HELP!! (3/19/2007 2:46:33 PM)

I am a newbie male sub in chicago ... have been online collarme and been unsuccessful for 4 years .... i was wondering if anyone could give me adive




SweetSarijane -> RE: HELP!! (3/19/2007 5:31:57 PM)

LA has given you great advice and a number of valuable links. I recommend highly, listening to the advice and reading the links as well as checking out the books at Greenery Press as they have a lot of nonfiction books on s&m, dominance, submission, etc.

Some of those good books are:
The Loving Dominant
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
Consensual Sadomasochism
SM101
The Topping Book
The Bottoming Book
Erotic Surrender:The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
and many, many more.

Get involved in local groups, attend demos, events and munches. Take what resonates/works for you and discard what doesn't. Discover where you fit, what you want and need and don't let people pressure you into anything you aren't ready for or don't want.




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