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Thank you to all: Edge Play - 4/7/2005 5:20:43 AM

LoneTiggerSWMI

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Wow, thank you to everyone who has made a post conserning my question about Edge Play. You have all given me more to think about, and have helped me to decide on the scene that I will be using. I believe I will be using something I'm comfortable with (fisting and bondage) and knowing that the Sub I will be using has never been involved with either and most of the spectators know this I think it will go well. Although I had planned on practicing the scene before hand, I think keeping it all planned out and in my head will make it more visual and realistic for the audience and the sub when the time comes. I have spoken with him about limits, and there are a few items that are going to push his. ie. I will start by cutting his clothing off with a buck knife, then blindfolding him.

Thanks again, any other comments or suggestions on Edge Play will still be helpful.

Yours in Leather,

Rob

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RE: Thank you to all: Edge Play - 4/7/2005 9:46:51 PM

GentleLady

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Hello LoneTigger.

I am sure that you know what you are doing and have had experience fisting and I am not implying otherwise. However, because this IS a public forum and people who are new to things are going to be reading the posts, I am asking you to expand on your scene preparation. The newer people should not be left with the impression that someone can fist someone for the first time without significant discussion and preparation.

If I was new I would want to know how long you have known this submissive and how many sessions you had done with him. I would be wondering about the comfort level for both you and him.

If I was new I would want to know how much work has been done preparing the ass for fisting and how many months it took. I would want to know the size of the largest dildo that the sub was comfortable with having in his ass. I would want to know if the submissive enjoyed having his ass used.

If I was new I would want to know why it is safe to introduce two new things to the submissive at the same time. I would be concerned that the submissive was pushing hard against two limits and I would want to know what contingency plan you have ready in case the submissive freaks out part-way through. I would want to know why the first time would be more realistic then the second time.

To repeat, I am NOT questioning your competency at all. I do think newcomers would benefit from a fuller description however.

Gentle Lady

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