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Reality Show - 3/19/2007 5:38:40 PM   
curiouslyseeking


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Status: offline 		Sit back, relax.,….let’s take a trip to yes-no-maybe land…Bring your logic, your hopes and desires and leave your frustrations behind…
 
We’ve all seen the reality shows…what if there was a reality show just for U/s that we could be united with a person we are searching for to compliment us in our desires and the way we choose to live our lives?
 
Suppose there was a neutral panel of Dominants and submissives …an extensive background check done on all applicants and compatibility matched up by this panel with careful consideration.  You had no say so whatsoever in the outcome only to accept their decision.  Almost on the premise of a prearranged marriage in the D/s sense for a year trial period binding by a legal contract from the production company.
 
Would you apply to this reality show in reality?  Why or why not? 
 
Would this be a form of sacraficing to live desires? 
 
Would a prearrangement, more likely than not, be successful with two people who love the life? 
 
( I hope you enjoyed the mind trip....wait until the ride comes to a complete stop before exiting...)

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 5:47:53 PM   
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Oh, you asked 'why'.

I'm comfortable with myself regarding WIITWD.    I bring a lot of technical skill, and applicable perspective, to this.  I understand others enough to deal with the interpersonal skills, and hopefully bring benefit to all.

I wouldn't need a stunt double.  That counts for something, doesn't it?

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 5:50:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		No i wouldn't apply because im already happily in a family.
If i wasnt no i still wouldnt apply because if i ended up having to spend a year with a dom / domme i didnt / couldnt get on with i'd go muchas loca.

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 6:11:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		No. Because things can often look good on paper but there's no accounting for chemistry. A panel of experts can't order me to love someone. Or to submit to him either. If I don't feel his dominance I don't submit.

And I don't submit if I don't love and am loved in turn. Not something that could happen in a half hour tv show.

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 6:20:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		The match would probably last as long as the ones on most reality shows, meaning no it most cases it wouldn't work.  I don't fit into enough boxes to make anyone able to select a match for me.  I have always done well enough on my own.

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 6:38:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		What about one called "BDSM Idol" where 12 D/s couples compete against each other in various categories, such as rope bondage, whips, servitude, etc. each week.  Then America calls in and the pair with the lowest number of votes goes home. 

I see SimplyMichael as the Simon Cowell judge, mean, but brutally honest.  "That was terrible.  Only half of your strokes drew blood, and her screaming was like a bad karaoke act!"

John Warren as Randy, knowledgable but good-natured, "Aiiight, dawg, the screaming was pitchy, dawg, and I just wasn't feeling the whip tonite!"

Bita Celeste as Paula, honest but sweet and kind.  "You two had really great chemistry together, and I don't know what the guys were talking about!  I love the marks you made on her with the whip, although they could have been deeper and you could have made more of them,  but her screaming brought tears to my eyes....*hic*  (Sorry, bita, just getting you into character!) 

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 7:01:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		That was awesome girl! LMFAO....tooo funny.

As to the OP..

i'm already in a committed relationship so no i wouldn't apply...also even if i weren't in a relationship i still don't think i would do it.

i need love to really submit to someone and thte judges couldn't guarantee that. BUT...

Playing along with the idea (using your rollercoaster/amusement park analogy...i really don't get scared on the Haunted Mansion ride at Disney but i go and enjoy it everytime soooo)

There could be some slight chance if they really really paired you up right that you could get to know eachother and it could be amazing. Alot of D/s M/s couples start out that way.(not knowing eachother really well)

There would also be some kind of *HOT* factor...but if it didn't go well it could be down right UGLY.

Maybe a month would be better than a year... LOL...talk about non commital


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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 7:42:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

I'm in.

Oh, you asked 'why'.

I'm comfortable with myself regarding WIITWD.    I bring a lot of technical skill, and applicable perspective, to this.  I understand others enough to deal with the interpersonal skills, and hopefully bring benefit to all.

I wouldn't need a stunt double.  That counts for something, doesn't it?

Jeff


Thank you mstrjx....you brought a valid point...interpersonal relationship skills and how vitial it is...whether a show or not...
 
For me I thought about a slave being able to adapt and accept...
 
I think it may work...

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 7:48:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

No. Because things can often look good on paper but there's no accounting for chemistry. A panel of experts can't order me to love someone. Or to submit to him either. If I don't feel his dominance I don't submit.

And I don't submit if I don't love and am loved in turn. Not something that could happen in a half hour tv show.


Thank you Celeste43..
 
I see two great points here...how important chemistry is....you are correct....and things don't always appear as good as they seem...
 
But also...intriguing you put that you have to love and be loved before you can submit...
 
For me, I definitely can submit before love has anything to do with it.
 
Now, I am curious as to how other submissives view this and to take it further how many Dominants have to be in love to control...(very very interesting)
 
 
 
 

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 7:50:22 PM   
curiouslyseeking


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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

The match would probably last as long as the ones on most reality shows, meaning no it most cases it wouldn't work.  I don't fit into enough boxes to make anyone able to select a match for me.  I have always done well enough on my own.

K  


Thank you playfulOne...
 
Can you share the secret to your success?  It appears on the forums a lot of frustration builds in finding the right One.
 

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 7:53:06 PM   
curiouslyseeking


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

What about one called "BDSM Idol" where 12 D/s couples compete against each other in various categories, such as rope bondage, whips, servitude, etc. each week.  Then America calls in and the pair with the lowest number of votes goes home. 

I see SimplyMichael as the Simon Cowell judge, mean, but brutally honest.  "That was terrible.  Only half of your strokes drew blood, and her screaming was like a bad karaoke act!"

John Warren as Randy, knowledgable but good-natured, "Aiiight, dawg, the screaming was pitchy, dawg, and I just wasn't feeling the whip tonite!"

Bita Celeste as Paula, honest but sweet and kind.  "You two had really great chemistry together, and I don't know what the guys were talking about!  I love the marks you made on her with the whip, although they could have been deeper and you could have made more of them,  but her screaming brought tears to my eyes....*hic*  (Sorry, bita, just getting you into character!) 


Thank you windchymes...
 
Really original...I like it!  
 
Is this a spin-off of my show?  Care to share the royalties? (smile)



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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 7:58:53 PM   
curiouslyseeking


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ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

As to the OP..

There could be some slight chance if they really really paired you up right that you could get to know eachother and it could be amazing. Alot of D/s M/s couples start out that way.(not knowing eachother really well)

Maybe a month would be better than a year... LOL...talk about non commital



Thank you charismagirrl...
 
You made a great point of getting to know each other how a lot of D/s starts out this way....could it be taking an online relationship to a real life relationship be paralleled in some way?
 
The month idea is a good thing...it could have turned out a month as a sex slave and 11 months as a house slave...
 
The month committment is sounding better and better (grin)
 
(rewriting the contracts..)



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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 10:46:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I could see doing it.  For one thing I'd be curious to see who others would pair me up with.  Who knows?  Maybe that's what I've been missing all along, an objective panel to do the searching for me! lol  And since you said that compatibility is being taken carefully into consideration, sure, why not?  I wouldn't necessarily have to feel love or chemistry to serve someone for only a year (or less).

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RE: Reality Show - 3/19/2007 11:19:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would never do it. two main reasons. the first is that I hate that kind of show. the second is that nobody can say who I should love. I find my own slaves

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RE: Reality Show - 3/20/2007 4:45:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mythi

I could see doing it.  For one thing I'd be curious to see who others would pair me up with.  Who knows?  Maybe that's what I've been missing all along, an objective panel to do the searching for me! lol  And since you said that compatibility is being taken carefully into consideration, sure, why not?  I wouldn't necessarily have to feel love or chemistry to serve someone for only a year (or less).


I also see that it would be an adventure...doesn't have to be endless love...though it could happen...
 
You never know what will happen after you say "hello" ... a very powerful word.

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RE: Reality Show - 3/20/2007 4:47:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WilliamWizer

I would never do it. two main reasons. the first is that I hate that kind of show. the second is that nobody can say who I should love. I find my own slaves


I find this interesting a Dominant talking about love before submission...if I am understanding correctly...
 
Is love more of a factor in Dominating and controlling than submission and obedience?
 
 

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RE: Reality Show - 3/20/2007 5:37:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: windchymes

What about one called "BDSM Idol" where 12 D/s couples compete against each other in various categories, such as rope bondage, whips, servitude, etc. each week. Then America calls in and the pair with the lowest number of votes goes home.

I see SimplyMichael as the Simon Cowell judge, mean, but brutally honest. "That was terrible. Only half of your strokes drew blood, and her screaming was like a bad karaoke act!"

John Warren as Randy, knowledgable but good-natured, "Aiiight, dawg, the screaming was pitchy, dawg, and I just wasn't feeling the whip tonite!"

Bita Celeste as Paula, honest but sweet and kind. "You two had really great chemistry together, and I don't know what the guys were talking about! I love the marks you made on her with the whip, although they could have been deeper and you could have made more of them, but her screaming brought tears to my eyes....*hic* (Sorry, bita, just getting you into character!)


LMFAO..... very funny! Thanx :)

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RE: Reality Show - 3/20/2007 5:53:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, the concept was floated around Hollyweird about two years ago that they do a BDSM reality show in the same vein as the "Bachelor" type ones. It was to have been a Dominatrix and a cadre of submales. Needless to say, this show has not materialized.

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RE: Reality Show - 3/20/2007 5:59:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking
I find this interesting a Dominant talking about love before submission...if I am understanding correctly...

Is love more of a factor in Dominating and controlling than submission and obedience?

Now that I've fallen in love with my sub, that love comes before all else. If he were to become unable to serve tomorrow due to some awful circumstance, I would give up BDSM for him. It would hurt him if I took another sub.. therefore I'd let it go. Yes, Dominants can be guided by tender emotion also.
 
However, in selecting my sub, love didn't enter into the equation. Submission, chemistry, hormones, lust and his ability to serve were the important factors. I didn't set out to find someone to love. I happened to fall in love with one of my subs. *smiles*

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RE: Reality Show - 3/20/2007 6:00:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking

quote:

ORIGINAL: WilliamWizer

I would never do it. two main reasons. the first is that I hate that kind of show. the second is that nobody can say who I should love. I find my own slaves


I find this interesting a Dominant talking about love before submission...if I am understanding correctly...
 
Is love more of a factor in Dominating and controlling than submission and obedience?
 
 


Yes. We can't forget that this is not some business, at least not for me. The relationship between a Master and his slave is one of love. That's why they want to live together.

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