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IBNotADominate -> RE: Your Fetish (9/4/2007 7:21:33 AM)
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ORIGINAL: loverly
how unusual to find another person into Bastinado...
Apparently it isn't too, too rare ... ran into a 22 y/o sub 5 hrs south of me who has the fetish but can't find anyone to satisfy her ... and she dropped off the boards. But I was surprised to find someone who actually knew what it is ... especially someone of her age.
BTW: there are 2 major forms of foot torture that appear similar to beginners, both bastinado & falaka (there are different spellings) involve beating the feet but 1 is low impulse but long duration ... the other is more intense ... have different effects. But if you like one, you'd probably like the other.
I don't have any official "fetishes" as defined in the DSM4, but I'm fond of forcing my sub (or slave) to do whatever it is that mildly embarrasses or humiliates her. But this usually winds up being a self-extinguishing situation. cyn was ashamed of her body, so I wouldn't let her wear any clothes in the house. But after 2 weeks, I couldn't get the hussy to put any clothes on :-) Ruined that for me ... but she got over a lot of her hangups, one at a time, in her 2 yrs with me.
Also, am very fond of controlling my sub's orgasms ... either pushing her to the edge & denying them ... or forcing multiple orgasms. Last week met a 20y/o who didn't know she had a g-spot, but we soon discovered that hers functioned well (twice) on our 1st date. On our 3rd date, she lost track of how many orgasms (I think she was up to 7 or 10, and enjoyed them all) ... (wish I could have 7-10 orgasms in an evening!). But my record holder was a local switch who was frustrated because she'd become anorgasmic. On our first date, we met for lunch, and in the car within 15 min she was staring at me in shock because she'd had her 1st orgasm in years w/o use of a 500 gigawatt vibrator. And we later found I could stimulate her to 2 hr continuous crescendo-decrescendo orgasms. And after the stimulation would stop, she'd 'diesel' for another 20 min ... her hubby & I both enjoyed watching her.
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