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MasterRobssara -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 11:54:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: apettiger

i was on a different site in a Gorean chat room when a Female took offence to my profile name (which is the same as on here) She insulted me and told me that i needed to read, because there were no tigers on Gor.... well, W/we are not on Gor, but i digress ...... She insisted that i leave the chatroom, i said if Another requested that i leave, i would, and i waited, then started to converse with an online friend. She got so upset She left the room, saying She would return when They decided not to allow animals inside anymore.
now how funny is that?


being a gorean lifestyler, I tend to not have to much patience with silly roleplayers who insist they live on gor...rolls eyes. Unfortunatly its dummies like that girl who make people believe all goreans think they live on another planet and really fly tarns...



outlier -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 11:57:44 AM)

zindyslave,

Being behind a computer keyboard and being able to reach out to
others is a form of power.  If you are a person of small character it
could even seem to be very powerful.

"Power does not change people, it reveals them"

These small people are revealing themselves to be what they are.
They are not masters of anyone or anything, especially themselves.
And they will quit annoying you and everyone else when they hear
their mommy knock on the door and tell them to shut the computer
off because it's almost their bedtime. 

Now then,  curiouslyseeking:

This quote "Something I've learned on my journey we choose
who we give power to over us, don't empower fools."

is not only great advice; it would make a great sig line!

Outlier




MagiksSlave -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:10:28 PM)

What bothers me is the e-mails I get that are nasty to my Master I cant even count how many I have gotten saying that I should wake up and go with them because they are real Masters, as well as many saying how the fact that my Master wants to submit he isnt a Master I have gotten a lot of those.


Magik's slave



mnottertail -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:14:05 PM)

I haven't sent you so many you can't count them, don't exaggerate like that, real subs don't do that sort of thing.

Ron



shadowalchemy -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:18:13 PM)

I've seen that happen before many times, I find someone I like and all of a sudden the other Dominants are on your back trying to make you see that this one is the wrong one and you should go with their supposedly better selves. No offense intended to those out there as I'm pretty sure I've never had that happen on here.



SilentHunter -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:18:28 PM)

Look the fact that your Master WANT's to explore his submissive side, means that He is truthful to both you and Himself, if others don't like it, too bad, your the one making the desicion to stay or not, and something like this shouldn't put a dent in the relationship one bit. I was semi trained as a sub/slave when i was 18-19 years old, and to be totally honest, it made me me. Don't take onboard what arseholes say, be YOU, and thats all that anyone can ask for.



zindyslave -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:19:33 PM)

Well, thanks for the advice. After thinking a bit on it, it is kind of funny and it shows how stupid he was to say that. I have also received a few e-mails saying that they could dominate me more than my Master, so I know what you have been through MagiksSlave. And it shows that he didn't take the time to read my profile because it clearly states that any dominate or male for that matter will not be answered and if they are only by my Master. But thanks for all the responses. I just needed to vent some I guess.



SilentHunter -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:22:11 PM)

*Gasp* *Shock* *Horror* You mean that those big silver birds are aircraft and not tarns, you busted my day lol. Personally i use humour, I know where my milk, fruit, and beer come from and it certainly ain't Gor lol. The milk came from Asda, the fruit the same and the beer from the off sales shop round the corner. I always wonder why I got booted out of som many chat rooms when i asked for diet coke with ice.



MasterRobssara -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:23:05 PM)

Well I am sorry but the fact that these "Masters" are trying to pull you from your owner shows their true honor...



curiouslyseeking -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:26:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: outlier

Now then,  curiouslyseeking:

This quote "Something I've learned on my journey we choose
who we give power to over us, don't empower fools."

is not only great advice; it would make a great sig line!

Outlier



I took your advice...Thank you [:D]



SilentHunter -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:28:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterRobssara

Could be worse, I got a e-mail from a man saying I was but ugly and looked like a man..now mind you I don't and never had a picture up...


Thats funny that, i got that just last week, from a guy who said I looked like a guy, i said read the profile lol the female one was my rt slave.



MagiksSlave -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:34:15 PM)

Master is of no risk to loseing me and he knows that. There is nothing anyone could say to me that would make me want to leave my Master for them, Nothing they say makes me think any worse of my Master no one ever could I know my Master he is the best man I have ever met the only man I ever met that I felt safe enough with to truely be a slave to. What upsets me is Im very protective of my Master and it hurts me that others are beeing mean twords him even if I am the one getting the mail (and no I havent shown or told Master about any of the letters)

Magik's slave



KatyLied -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:39:30 PM)

Why do people get so riled up over something an idiot on-line says?  Is it really that important to you?



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 12:56:37 PM)

nope, we're not this big happy supportive family. There's assholes and rude people, and people with their own agenda's and so on and so forth.

quote:

ORIGINAL: zindyslave

It doesn't really bother me except for the fact that I thought we all were supposed to be on here to be supportive



littleone35 -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 1:00:55 PM)

Zindy i woulod not waste another min of thought on the jerk.  I have not got any attacking me but if i did it would give me my laugh for the day.  I actually pity them they have nothiung better to do than attack people from the saftey of their computers.

Matt's littleone



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 1:26:44 PM)

Yes this was a few older pictures back, he said how many double chins do you have, like 6? I looked at his profile and he was in a diner booth smoking a cigarett, I asked him how many people are you trying to poison with your fowl cigarett, told him he'd been reported to mods for harrasment, and blocked him.

quote:

ORIGINAL: zindyslave
I am just sensitive about me weight. Anyone else have problems like this?



whipofdoom -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 1:44:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zindyslave

Well, thanks for the advice. After thinking a bit on it, it is kind of funny and it shows how stupid he was to say that. I have also received a few e-mails saying that they could dominate me more than my Master, so I know what you have been through MagiksSlave. And it shows that he didn't take the time to read my profile because it clearly states that any dominate or male for that matter will not be answered and if they are only by my Master. But thanks for all the responses. I just needed to vent some I guess.

I know how you feel about venting. We all need to do that sometimes. We all get fly-by insults by unknown people who then block us.  As for the one's that say they make a better Dom and insult your Master. That violates every protocol I ever learned. People like that prove they're worthless.



ScreamerGirl -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 2:51:28 PM)

I'm sorry that someone upset you.

I'm not entirely sure though why anyone would believe that the BDSM community would be any more or less supporting than any other online/offline community of people.  We're all human beings first, and there are mean people everywhere.

This isn't really a support site.  It's a personals site and an educational (sometimes) site, but support is relative, and I wouldn't expect to find it here anymore than I would on a gaming site.



Emperor1956 -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 3:02:41 PM)

quote:

"we choose who we give power to over us, don't empower fools."


Or as Eleanor Roosevelt said::

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

E



givemyall -> RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? (3/20/2007 4:24:49 PM)

I got called a raddled old bingo playing pensioner once... I liked that particular insult lol, but I liked it even more when the week after I got a message from another dimdom telling me that I looked 50 years old ............ what a compliment!..... I had become 10 years younger in one week.

My advice would be to laugh at them, they are just sad idiots with nothing better to do than try to upset or annoy people - don't give them the satisfaction of knowing their words offend, because at the end of the day, their words don't count for shit [:D]



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