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Elorin -> RE: dumb puppy (3/20/2007 9:42:43 PM)
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When I first met M, we were friends...and he was my Dom. Which meant that we hung out, watched movies, sometimes went to bars or parties together. And he gave me structure and direction which I craved, while I gave him service. We mutually filled the others' S&M cravings - for spankings, bondage, humiliation, and exploration.
We came to love one another. Fell in love, if you will. We weren't "just friends" but we were not lovers. He had a primary relationship and so did I.
In the course of our relationship, his primary and mine have split from each of us. He is now my primary partner. He is now my boyfriend, as well as my lover, as well as my partner in crime (we like to co-top willing victims!), as well as my Top, Dom, Owner, Master, Daddy, and best friend.
In public, it looks like we are boyfriend and girlfriend. Except I ask him if I can have a beer, I always hand him food or drinks with my right hand and my eyes on my offering until he thanks me, I say "Sir!" rather than use his name to get his attention.
At home, I ask his permission to get into the bed, I address him as Master. I request permission before putting clothes on, and he always gives final approval to what I wear if we leave the house. I serve his drinks from one knee or both (normally I go to one knee at parties, as it's easier to rise, but kneel fully at home) with my right hand. We talk about what we both want to do for an evening - but he makes the final decision.
~smiles softly~
Hope that helps.
~E
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