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TheMastHead -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/21/2007 9:46:26 PM)
Well that goes back to the old cheap shot that gets men into trouble they want a woman to swallow their cum but God forbid don't expect me to kiss you afterward! That is hypocrisy! Now with a Golden Shower well its supposed to be humiliation and if one were ending a scene and that was the big climax I suppose it would be Kosher same as ending any scene. But I myself would make sure she was in the shower and turn that on and help her wash off; that is an sort of mid term of endearment leading to a closure kiss. I think there is a difference between the cum and piss scenario. Because one is bdsm kink the other pretty much on the menu of hot but regular sex. That is my story and I'm sticking to it. TheMasthead

undergroundsea -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/21/2007 9:52:57 PM)
I am not sure if this practice is a safe one. I mean, wouldn't the sub get cooties from the kiss? Cheers, Sea

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/21/2007 10:13:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheMastHead Well that goes back to the old cheap shot that gets men into trouble they want a woman to swallow their cum but God forbid don't expect me to kiss you afterward! That is hypocrisy! TheMasthead Hypocrisy is perfectly acceptable within an agreed upon imbalance in power/authority relationship in my opinion. I myself said I don't mind kissing after golden shower, but there may be one or two things I object to kissing after; and as a dominant, guess what, I decide what I/we will do or won't do. quote: I mean, wouldn't the sub get cooties from the kiss? [sm=biggrin.gif] LOL Sea. M

MsRose -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/22/2007 12:23:55 AM)
Well, it's my pee, and I know that I partake of a healthy diet. Mmm I don't know. For the one sub with whom I tried golden showers, he found the act humiliating/stimulating. In his humiliation, I found eroticism. Letting him sit in the bathtub, soaking, added to the humiliation/eroticism. I don't know that kissing him after the fact would add or detract from the experience. But I'm curious and would experiment with the concept of kissing afterward. Thanks for the idea. (edited to correct errant comma)

LordJessie -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/22/2007 12:56:34 AM)
I would, I have and I will. There is an intimacy in that kiss that I will not be denied. I love it!!!

pixelslave -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/22/2007 12:02:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsRose Well, it's my pee, and I know that I partake of a healthy diet. Mmm I don't know. For the one sub with whom I tried golden showers, he found the act humiliating/stimulating. In his humiliation, I found eroticism. Letting him sit in the bathtub, soaking, added to the humiliation/eroticism. I don't know that kissing him after the fact would add or detract from the experience. But I'm curious and would experiment with the concept of kissing afterward. Thanks for the idea. You're welcome for the idea. I'm glad to see that dominants have generally responded to this thread in a far more positive way than I'd expected. [:D] To me, it is entirely about the eroticism, intimacy and passion for each other that D/s relationships and play can create or enhance. Knowing that my Mistress was willing and able to express that through a passionate kiss greatly enhanced this particular experience for me. [sm=lol.gif] As I think back, there have been other experiences that were the sort where there was no "squick factor" involved where this happened as well. From that, I've concluded that a dominant allowing a submissive to see her arousal and experience her passion for him as a result of their play, is quite important to me. It is something that was missing to at least some degree in past D/s relationships for me, that I now realize I need a great deal more of. I think most would agree it is always nice to know, that what you and your partner are sharing, is turning both of you on. If a dominant hides her arousal from her sub, both may be missing-out on something they could have gained from sharing the experience. [8\|] As to the comment from my friend Sea, all I can say is: better cooties than crabs! [sm=lol.gif] - pixel

Elorin -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/22/2007 10:28:03 PM)
In general, would I be willing to kiss a sub after a GS in the mouth? Absolutely. In the specific situation, it would depend on whether the sub was a romantic interest or not. I wouldn't hesitate due to tasting pee or anything like that, but more due to the dynamics of the relationship.

toylet -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 9:22:03 AM)
i thought about this for a while. The tradeoff is between intimacy and degradation, and i love both -- so my feelings about this are very mixed. In the end, whatever She does is for Her, and, if Her passion is such that She wants to kiss me, i'll feel both gratitude and joy. Now, if this topic incorporated also anal cleaning, my reaction would be a lot different. toylet

Bearlee -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 9:37:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx I enjoy inordinate intimacy during embarrassing or extreme acts. Anything that deepens or clarifies the bond between two people. Perhaps squick-elicious of a different sort. I generally give very deep, passionate kisses while a sub/slave is beginning to 'release' an enema. No, you don't get privacy. <snorts> O M F G!!! I'd die a thousand deaths...

Bearlee -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 9:48:17 AM)
Okay, having said THAT… I’d first like to say congrats to pixel! As to the question at hand…I’ve been peed in and I’ve peed in…either way I like the intimacy of kissing. Always. I agree with TMH, too…nothing hotter than a man who likes to kiss after he’s cum in my mouth. Yummmmmmmmmmm Oddly, I do not see watersports as humiliation…just intimate play. Still though…I wanna void behind CLOSED DOORS!!! <shudders>

mstrjx -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 10:55:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx I enjoy inordinate intimacy during embarrassing or extreme acts. Anything that deepens or clarifies the bond between two people. Perhaps squick-elicious of a different sort. I generally give very deep, passionate kisses while a sub/slave is beginning to 'release' an enema. No, you don't get privacy. <snorts> O M F G!!! I'd die a thousand deaths... Hey, there. It was only a matter of time you found this thread. You might think you would (die a thousand deaths), but you'ld love it every moment. No. No privacy. Uh-uh.

pinksissyPA -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 1:21:16 PM)
Ms Blk has long gorgeous legs. Any sub would be in heave to look up at Her and to be kissed afterwards would be divine. imho pink

Bearlee -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 1:37:05 PM)
Why? Why on earth would someone want to be in the same room with someone voiding an enema? The sights, sounds, and smells are enough to make kissing pretty unappetizing…to me. And…I don’t even like sitting on a toilet and peeing in front of someone; gawd…release an enema? Lordy!!! The first time I had one of those damn colonoscopies, I thought THAT was bad; three people standing around pumping air and a damn hose up my butt! I’d rather take a beating than have someone hear me fart…or discover that I had in some other noxious way. Still…all that is nothing compared to voiding an enema in front of him, not to mention kissing him while I’m doing so. Crikey!!! I can see it now…I’d be trying to hold it, trying to be quiet, trying not to cry and bawling my eyes out. Nope… not for me!!! Christ, and don’t get me started on crying; snot dripping, make-up running; Ugg! God, I have a morning ritual with one of those ball syringes and it’s all I can do to manage that while he’s asleep in the next room and I’ve got the fan going! bearlee

CruelMistrezz -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 1:48:11 PM)
After reading most of the replies I do agree kissing after a golden shower or for that matter even after using My toilet as a full toilet I have no problem kissing him because we share an incredible and intimate bond. Have I kissed all the human toilets Ive trained and or used? No I haven't and don't intend to. Frankly it is the bond that I share with My current toilet that allows Me to feel comfortable enough to share an intimate act with him. To show him how pleased I am with him. As for tasting My golden or brown? Honestly when I am kissing him I just don't notice a taste because that is not what I am paying attention to and the fact I know I am the source of it. MsPatty

mstrjx -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 2:32:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee Why? Why on earth would someone want to be in the same room with someone voiding an enema? The sights, sounds, and smells are enough to make kissing pretty unappetizing…to me. And…I don’t even like sitting on a toilet and peeing in front of someone; gawd…release an enema? Lordy!!! All righty. I'll bite. To whom it may concern, 1) Because last time I checked, 'emotional discomfort' isn't generally a hard limit. 2) You DO like to be kissed, don't you? What makes you think you can preclude when I decide to 'dish it out'. You wouldn't want me to withhold at any other random time, would you? 3) I might have found your squick, but apparently we haven't discovered mine, and that's probably all that matters 4) To better reinforce the difference between your 'lot in life' in this relationship, and mine. 5) For my pleasure, and knowing that 1-4 have all made me very happy makes me want to kiss you, so pucker up! Jeff

pixelslave -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/24/2007 4:18:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee Okay, having said THAT… I’d first like to say congrats to pixel! As to the question at hand…I’ve been peed in and I’ve peed in…either way I like the intimacy of kissing. Always. I agree with TMH, too…nothing hotter than a man who likes to kiss after he’s cum in my mouth. Yummmmmmmmmmm Oddly, I do not see watersports as humiliation…just intimate play. Still though…I wanna void behind CLOSED DOORS!!! <shudders> Thanks for the congrats Bearlee! [:)] I too see watersports as an intimate form of play. I feel very close to my partner when we head down that path. I found myself having to release an enema in front of my Mistress the other day in order to continue some very hot impromptu anal play that had started. At the time, I felt a certain amount of embarrassment myself, but was way too turned on to care or let it inhibit things. However, I can definitely relate to what you've said to Jeff. In the past, these things have usually been planned and I've always been responsible for taking care of privately cleansing myself for that kind of play. I've now been informed that She will always be preparing me herself when we engage in anal play. This will be very different for me, and I know I'll be turning beet red at least the first dozen times as she teases me while filling me with water & so forth. I have no idea what will happen from there as this will be a totally new experience for me. [;)] - pixel

Bearlee -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/25/2007 1:40:08 PM)
Dear Biter, 1) No, emotional discomfort…even psychological discomfort is not a hard limit. 2) I cannot imagine precluding your dishing; but…well…I just do not understand WHY one would want to right then and there!!! 3) Hmmmmmm… <moves to #4> 4) Yes, that part makes infinite sense…but I still do not understand the why’s or wherefores of insisting on being so intimate at that specific moment. Really…is it totally the squick factor? Is it just the joy of completely humiliating the partner? Lordy…it’s just so…..extreme!!! Are tears a turn-on, too? b

Bearlee -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/25/2007 1:47:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave ...In the past, these things have usually been planned and I've always been responsible for taking care of privately cleansing myself for that kind of play. ... Ditto! I'm fairly open minded and just discovered my kink-score is almost 800, but I definately wanna draw the line at this. Some things just outta be private! IMHO, b

mstrjx -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/25/2007 1:49:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bearlee Are tears a turn-on, too? No, but as I was just saying to another last night, they're not a safe word, either. Humiliation 'can' be simply humiliating, but it can be strengthening as well. I'm certain that this emotion might be lost on some, but what does it tell you if I am continuing to be accepting and intimate with you at the exact moment you are having discomfort with your self-acceptance. At the bottom (so to speak) of your 'attractiveness' quotient, I am there to pick you up, and to demonstrate how you are valued. Just another layer of 'why'. Jeff

Bearlee -> RE: Kissing after a Golden Shower - would you?? (3/25/2007 1:52:27 PM)
Damn Jeff...you are a complex and complicated mofo... Thank you for that...perhaps I can see the light; even if it is the tiniest little glimmer with great respect, b

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