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Chloelicious -> silly question?!? (3/21/2007 5:46:49 AM)
Hello all, I was wandering between profiles and i wondered what was exactly " forced orgasms "? How can you force someone to have orgasms? It is probably silly but i'm really curious and non informed about that. Please expend my horizon.Thank you

SirDominic -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:27:36 AM)
Dont' know about anyone else, but for me the term "forced" is a misnomer. It is actually training a slave to come on command, to orgasm when they are ordered to do so. It is the art of training a slave to be so sensually aware of her body, her emotions, her state of mind, that she is like a bomb ready to explode. All Master does is push her button and off she goes. It's a powerful tool of submission when a Master has control of their slave's orgasms. On the opposite side of the fence is orgasm denial. No matter the pleasure they feel, the slave may not come until the Master allows her to. Namaste, Sir Dominic

myobedience -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:30:22 AM)
No question is silly .... I known nothing about forced orgasms becasue I know I could never be forced to have one... it just aint happening in my body. I have spoken, through the years, with women, who can cum on demand, but it is a learned process. It IS a fetish imho and you need someone who compliments this fetish to find satisfactory output.

Chloelicious -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:32:54 AM)
Sir dominic, Thank you for your answer. It was pretty complete but i still wonder, how do "you" train her/him? That is something that you normally can't command. I sound Naïve im well aware of that but if you do not ask; you do not know

Celeste43 -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:35:59 AM)
In a way you're right. But this is one of his favorite activities. Usually I get tied up so that I can't move away when it gets overwhelming. He then decides at some point he'd like to have me cumming multiple times. If I had my choice I would have a minute between to catch my breath, literally. Instead he continues stimulation of the clit and Gspot so that there is no break between them. I can barely breathe enough not to pass out, they get almost painful from being so intense and then at some point he can stop stimulating me but I continue orgasming for quite a while. At that point he usually unties me enough that he can lie on top of me, no penetration, just skin to skin contact and they continue for a long time. Once they start slowing down he begins nipple play which speeds them up again. At the end of which I am exhausted, dehydrated and frequently in tears from it being so overwhelming. And that's forced orgasm here. Other people I know will occasionally use a Hitachi wand, the sub gets tied in place and the wand tied or taped into position. Then it's turned on and she's forced to endure repeated orgasms even to the point where the spasms become painful. We don't go beyond the point where I beg for release. We tried it and yes I did continue orgasming for as long as he kept it up but I had zero sex drive for several days afterwards. As he'd do this several times a day if he had time and privacy, he doesn't like to kill off my sex drive.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:38:47 AM)
I agree with most the word"forced" isn't the correct word to be using here.I pefer the word" taught" to cum on command,WE do this by using denial,by taking her to the top and refusing her release for months on end and then give her a trigger word after a while she will cum on command...bounty

Chloelicious -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:45:54 AM)
Thanx all for you help. I've read some other forums and found some answers there too. It appears to me that i was not searching good enough.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:49:08 AM)
The body is physically triggered to have an orgasm, despite any emotional or mental state of the person having the orgasm. For me, I can't be forced to have the first orgasm, but with the right stimulus, my body can be forced to continue having orgasms once the first is achieved, no matter how much I want it to stop.

SirDominic -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 7:51:49 AM)
Good answer, Celeste. I would only disagree that it is "forced" orgasm. But I think we mean the same thing and are just using different words. It is forced in the sense that you don't have control of when and how much you will come. But it isn't forced in the sense that it is nonconsensual (I assume). That is why I don't like using the term "forced" as to a newbie it sounds like nonconsensual, i.e. rape. Chloe, you are correct, this is not something you can just command with most women. They need to be trained. As I started to say, the training involves ratcheting up her sensitivity, her sensuality to the point that every inch of her body is a nerve on fire. It takes time, it doesn't happen overnight. It also involves stimulating her very directly and not letting up after her first orgasm. You just keep up the intensity and she will come again, then again. Once you have her trained to have multiple orgasms (for some women this comes naturally, for others it has to be learned), her body will begin to react very powerfully just being near her Master. It also involves not letting up, even in nonsexual situations. Stroking her, making her skin feel alive. Suggesting she feel how her hair feels brushng against her shoulders. Touching her intimately at an unexpected moment. It's all designed to have her aching and ready just about all the time. Namaste, Sir Dominic

vield -> RE: silly question?!? (3/21/2007 8:05:23 AM)
The term "forced orgasms" like most terms we use in BD/SM can have different meanings to different people. It could refer to a role play where the dom commands the sub to have an orgasm. It could refer to a situation where the sub is forbidden to orgasm without permission, then is stimulated by the dom until their body just lets go... which of course brings punishment for "not obeying" the command to hold back. Many women and men have powerful orgasmic reactions to elements of BD/SM and can be "made to come". As long as everyone is consenting adults, no problem. In some cases resistance to the stimulation can enhance the orgasm. There is often a misconception about the physical reactions of male submissives. Many people think orgasm = ejaculation. This is NOT necessarily true. Some men can be stimulated into an ejaculation without it being orgasmic at all, in some circumstances. It may even be torture. Also some men can reach orgasms in various ways without any erection or ejaculation occurring, forced or not.

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