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arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 7:26:20 AM   
myobedience


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Have you arranged a gangbang?  If so, how have you gone about doing so?
 
Who are the participants and how did you find them?  Are they nilla as well as doms or subs?
 
Did you do background checks on the participants?
 
Did you arrange an all male gangbang for one female?
Or have you arranged an all female gangbang for one women?

How many participalnts did you have besides the one to which this was arranged for?

Did you have observers, a photographer?

Were you, as the Dom/me, present?  
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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 7:36:09 AM   
SirDominic


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Status: offline 		In our area we are fortunate to have a Master who has his own play dungeon. He has play parties for different groups most weekends. Through him, a Master can arrange to have his slave gang banged, knowing it is a safe environment for his slave, as the owner runs the show. Makes sure everyone wears condoms, that no-one goes beyond the level of intensity the Master wishes, etc. The slave's Master is almost always present.

Were I inclined to do this, which I am not, I would make use of this gentleman's services.

Obviously, not everyone has access to this. My advice would be to get together with whatever group there is in your local community, and get references from there. If you live in an area where no such group exists, I would seriously reconsider whether this is a wise thing to do, unless you personally know all the people who will be attending, it is a crap shoot.

This all presuming one cares about the safe, sane and consensual approach.

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 7:37:05 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Some swinger groups do this semi regularly. You could contact them and see if you like their style.

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 7:47:47 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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finding a sub to do gangbangs

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 10:22:00 AM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		my Master has arranged a couple of gangbangs for me, sometimes through another local group who specializes in that sort of thing, and sometimes just through hunting for and meeting people one by one who fit his criteria. the latter way is much more difficult and time-consuming, but more fulfilling for a Master since all the power is truly in his hands. the Men who used me (and it was always only men, between 4 and 8 of them) have never all been 100% vanilla, they were either swingers, bdsm folks, M/s folks, or some combination of the above. for the gangbangs, he has so far always been present. tho there have been a few "trains" (slightly different than a gangbang), involving vanilla men, where he was not present.

as to background checks, std testing, condom use, safety, etc., that's all going to differ from Master to Master and gangbang to gangbang. for one particular event my Master may go through extensive checks, demand several clean std screenings, require strict condom use, place many limits on what people may do to me, etc. for another event he may find a group of total strangers and place few if any limits, and not even require condom use. it also depends on what he desires at that particular moment.




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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 1:08:43 PM   
toservez


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Celeste43

Some swinger groups do this semi regularly. You could contact them and see if you like their style.


I would also recommend this as control and safety are important factors in a gang bang. Also if you have a large local BDSM (or whatever you want to call it) community you might find enough people interested that would be better for a more power exchange dynamic to the gang bang.

Most of your other questions the OP posted can be answered by it varies and what is the person actually looking for outside of the photographer. If you want pictures you would need permission from all of the participants or at the very minimum taking picture only of the people willing.


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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/21/2007 2:44:19 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Yes I have done so but not very often as the logistics are time consuming and the responsibility huge.

Whether it is a spoken desire or just a fantasy, many fems, even in vanilla have those fantasies.

The last time a submissive had asked me to arrange one to fulfill a long held deep secret, it took two weeks to screen and set up.

I would not do so for a 3rd party but only for a special submissive that truely wanted it.

I never partisipate but remain in the room to mantain the preset protocls

CP

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 3:43:58 AM   
BeachMystress


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Status: offline 		I've never arranged or participated in a gang bang, so I can't help you with that part. As to the locating people part, I remember seeing a listing for a local-to-me gang bang yahoo group on http://www.adultgroupfinder.com/links/ a few years back. Perhaps you can find one local to you. I'm sorry, I don't remember the catagory I found it under..

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 4:14:13 AM   
myobedience


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Status: offline 		I am not looking to set one up.... not at all.  I am just wondering how others do it or have done it. Thus all the questions.
For my curiosity sake.
Besides, I firmly believe it is the Dom/me's responsibility to set such a thing up, not a subs.
I am learning, by observation, one way of setting such a  thing up, so I am wondering how others do it.

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 7:09:21 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience
Besides, I firmly believe it is the Dom/me's responsibility to set such a thing up, not a subs.

Well it's generally whoever's responsibility the relationship is set up for it to be/whatever the dom says.



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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 8:24:29 AM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience
Besides, I firmly believe it is the Dom/me's responsibility to set such a thing up, not a subs.



Not necessarily.  If my Master says, "Set this up"  guess whose responsibility it is?   He has had me set up situations before involving strangers (not gang bangs, though), and he has set up his own.  It depends on his mood and how much effort he wants to put out.  It's my job to make his life easier, and that doesn't include deciding what he should or shouldn't do, it's doing what he wants me to do.

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 8:42:31 AM   
lateralist1


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Status: offline 		Well said ownedgirlie. Of course you might need help with some things and that is your Master's job. Being dominant or submissive doesn't mean your capable of doing everything alone. It's a strong partnership. Each giving what they are naturally good at but both should be learning all the time.
I wouldn't have a clue how to even start to set up a gangbang. But if I wanted to badly enough then no doubt I would find a way.

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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 8:51:58 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Exactly, lateralist1.  I am never alone, and he is always happy to help.  But I must also put out the effort of trying to figure something out that he tells me to do.    I think if he wanted me to arrange a gang bang, I'd come to this thread to see what others have so kindly posted! And I would ask those I know who have done it before.

It may happen yet - I rule nothing out anymore!!


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RE: arranging gangbangs - 3/22/2007 8:04:30 PM   
myobedience


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Status: offline 		Yes, some of you are correct.. within YOUR relationship you make his life easier.
But that does not mean that is the way it is for all D/s relationships.
The parameters and foundations of a relationship is built upon discussion, communications, trust and respect.
I firmly believe it is the Dom/me's responsiblility because of past experiences and now, I am told it is NOT my responsiblility.  I DO sigh a breath of relief.
I do understand what some of you are saying, but DO understand it is NOT the same in every relationship.
I am blessed at this time to have someone who prefers to make it HIS total business IF and when I am shared,  if I bottom or sub to another, male or female.
And the relationship is a matter of OPEN communication, my opinion as valued as his.  A partnership built with 2 equal partners... a D and an s.  As he said, not one is more special nor more superior than the other.

If he ever sets one up for me, I will share some the details...if I know any before hand.  So that others may learn how best to arrange SAFE group sex.  And NOT with swingers either.  

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